Post Date June, 25 2023
Being gentle and sincere, resentful but not angry has been a traditional virtue of Chinese women since ancient times. However, the gentleness unique to women is still a healing medicine for men. Recently, a study released by the University of Zurich in Switzerland and Emory University in the United States showed that when men face stress, if their partner can use gentle words to encourage them, even for only 10 minutes, it will significantly reduce their heart rate and stress hormones, and relieve stress. This is the immense power of gentleness!
The book "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" also points out that women's hints and encouragement have a golden meaning for men. Men cannot leave your expressions of love, as well as your attention and gratitude, which can reduce their psychological pressure. Therefore, men need women to express trust and encouragement through words in order to believe that they are strong, thereby stimulating confidence and courage to face difficulties. Gentle and comforting words are a powerful form of support, representing acceptance, tolerance, trust, and love. When a person's stress is relieved, their mood becomes relaxed, and negative emotions are released, their body naturally becomes healthy.
Although women are mostly gentle, sometimes they forget or are not good at expressing themselves, which requires women to learn the skills of expressing tenderness. In addition, many women sarcastically hit their partners when they encounter difficulties, thinking that it can cheer them up. In fact, what men most need at this time is not whip. This so-called whip not only makes them lose confidence, but also makes them feel less supported, encouraged, and trusted.
In this fast-paced society, the pressure of life is increasing, and both men and women are equally eager for comfort and encouragement. As long as you have these important support, no matter how much pressure you have, you can silently resolve it. After gaining a deeper understanding of the power of gentleness, women also learn how to provide more and better support to their partners.
