Post Date April, 15 2023
Xiaozhang and his wife had a baby just one year after their marriage. Since the baby was born, their wife has slept with the baby every night for the reason of not trusting the baby alone, so they slept separately with their husband for five months. Then one weekend, when the husband made love with him, he found that he could not erect. He went to the hospital for examination and was diagnosed as impotent. The doctor said that this was related to his long-term separation. Xiaozhang's wife was very guilty.
In fact, it is often seen that the wife sleeps with her husband for various reasons, such as too small children, too loud snoring, etc., which causes her husband's sexual desire not to be released and leads to impotence. Sleeping in embrace between husband and wife is originally the best annotation of intimate relationship. Sleeping in separate beds shows the decline of intimacy between husband and wife. The sexual needs of husband and wife will gradually cool down with the extension of the time of bed separation, Men will not be impotent because of long-term disuse, and can not satisfy their wives, resulting in the intensification of marital conflicts and the breakdown of families.
So no matter what reason, we should not sleep in separate beds. People in one bed have the most convenient emotional communication. If we split beds or even rooms, emotional communication must be affected. Sexual life is the lubricant of husband and wife's feelings. If we split beds for a long time, men will reject sexual life psychologically, leading to mental impotence. It will be difficult to live in the same bed again.
(Intern editor: Huang Junda)
