Post Date April, 15 2023
On January 4th, the Marriage Industry Committee of the China Social Work Association of the Ministry of Civil Affairs and Baihe.com jointly released the "2011 Survey Report on the Marriage and Love Status of Chinese People". A survey shows that nearly 80% of surveyed single women believe that a man's monthly income of over 4000 yuan is suitable for dating, an increase of more than 10 percentage points compared to the 2010 survey results. Among them, 27.1% of people believe that a man's monthly income of over 10000 yuan is suitable for dating.
Another 70% of people choose to marry only when they have a house. 57% of people believe that 'marrying well is better than doing well'. 44% are afraid of marriage because of the high divorce demography, 41% are afraid of losing their freedom, and 37.5% are afraid of the heavy family burden.
Editor's note: It is only after a monthly income of over 4000 that one is eligible for a romantic relationship. This financial constraint undoubtedly hurts the hearts of men in the world. Except for major cities such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, and Shenzhen, it may be difficult for the average monthly salary of employees in other cities across the country to reach 4000 yuan. Is it true that except for the men in those few cities, young men from other places no longer fall in love? This is obviously nonsense. Moreover, in rural areas, income is lower than in urban areas. Throughout the year, so many migrant workers flock to cities, most of which are just one or two thousand yuan per month. And an obvious fact is that this does not prevent these young people from falling in love, getting married, or having children.
It seems that the survey of "80% of surveyed single women believe that a man's monthly income of over 4000 yuan is suitable for dating" intentionally or unintentionally overlooked that large low-income group.
There are both supporters and opponents of the above topic, what about you? Are you a centrist?
The woman said:
Hostess 1: Chinese women's "love for money" is actually mainly for raising their offspring
The subsidies given to babies by Western countries can help mothers focus on raising their children at home, so Western women can ignore their boyfriends' property and family background. What guarantees does the Chinese government provide for mothers and children? This burden can only be passed on to men
The employment rate of Chinese women is the highest. Generally, women have no problem supporting themselves, but it is difficult to raise children. Requesting a monthly salary of 4000 for men is not high.
Hostess 2: Nowadays, the prices of housing, housing, and medical services are so high. Can we not afford a household registration of over 4000 yuan per month? Taiwanese female writer Sanmao once said, "Love is not easy to last forever if it is not implemented in real life such as dressing, eating, counting money, and sleeping.
Female 3: Nowadays, men are also particularly realistic, requiring their partners to have job security, not too poor work, and having a good family background. It is best to let them struggle for a few years less. Of course, I am not talking about all men.
The man said:
Man 1: I just want to ask if our grandfather's grandfather has met this standard. If so, where do we come from....
Man 2: Wrong. Nowadays, college campuses are full of romantic relationships, and their monthly income is 0. It should be changed to men earning 4000 yuan per month before they are eligible for marriage.
Male 3: While demanding a man, what is the starting point for a woman's monthly salary? At least half of what you want
Man 4: I am currently a civil servant with a monthly income of only over 2000 yuan. Will my future life be complicated? You're not even qualified to play with your girlfriend!
Man 5: It seems that it's not suitable yet
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
