May Day holiday is approaching, how do couples have sex? These three sexual issues need to be understood

The May Day holiday is approaching, and during this holiday, office workers who are usually overwhelmed by the pressure of their busy work see it as a good time to make up for their romantic partner. However, in this romantic holiday sex life, many problems will also be exposed. Today I will summarize so that everyone will not encounter the following problems again during the next long vacation!

One of the issues with long holidays: differences in holiday expectations

During their honeymoon, Xiaoping and Jiajia had a particularly happy sexual life. But once the marriage leave is over and they start busy with work, their sexual life becomes less arbitrary. Both of them are newcomers to the workplace, and their minds are occupied by work all day. When they return home, they naturally have little interest in playing games. Gradually, Jia Jia began to be dissatisfied with Xiao Ping's increasingly simple "sexual procedures". Fortunately, Xiaoping was aware of this and had already arranged for a vacation in Bali before last year's "5.1" holiday, hoping to compensate his wife.

When he arrived in Bali and entered the hotel, Xiaoping couldn't wait to embrace his wife... He was all set on giving her a perfect sexual encounter, but found that Jiajia was completely out of state. Not only did he not have the expected enthusiastic response, but he was also somewhat absent-minded. In a lingering moment, he suddenly asked him, "When are we going to the beach to bask in the sun?" Xiaoping's enthusiasm was ignored and he felt particularly aggrieved: I worked so hard to prepare for a big fight, But you only want to go to the beach.

A planned beautiful sexual encounter was abandoned halfway.

Analysis: Different thoughts lead to sex being stranded

Bestselling books on gender issues such as "Men from Mars, Women from Venus" and "Men in the bedroom to the left, women in the bedroom to the right" tell us that there are significant differences between men and women in both ways of thinking and doing things, and that's where Xiaoping and Jiajia's problems lie. Although they all have expectations for a beautiful holiday, their "holiday ideals" are vastly different: Xiaoping only wants to make up for the warmth she owes her during the holiday, while Jiajia wants to enjoy romance on the beach, and the quality of sexual life is greatly compromised due to this difference.

Suggestion: Seek common ground while reserving differences, and take a consistent approach

The ideal vacation for both partners is to achieve orgasm only when both partners are in sync. Therefore, Xiaoping needs to be patient and suggest that he first take his wife to the beach to bask in the sun. During this time, he can offer seductive hints such as lingering hugs, and then return to his room to warm up and give her a perfect sexual experience.

The second issue of long vacation: being too deliberate leads to insufficient ability

Nana and Linfeng have been married for several years, and her husband, Linfeng, runs a private enterprise. He usually manages a lot of things and rarely goes home. As a fashion model, Nana is relatively leisurely and spends her time at home doing beauty, fitness, shopping, and household chores when she doesn't show off. Linfeng is 10 years older than his wife and is about to enter the age of 40. He is well aware that gender harmony may not be as good as during his youth, so he prepared before the rare long vacation. In addition to arranging a luxurious dinner, I also prepared roses and charming gifts for my wife. I quietly took many tonics and planned to enjoy the long lost warmth.

But he never expected that when facing his charming wife, he suddenly felt powerless and soon lost. Late at night, I tossed and turned in the wind, filled with a sense of frustration in my heart. He doesn't understand why he did so much preparation, but it backfired?

Analysis: Excessive Intention Causes Inner Anxiety

Medical research has shown that in most cases, occasional erectile dysfunction (ED) is related to a person's personality and attitude towards life.

As a private enterprise operator, Linfeng spends most of his time in a state of anxiety and tension. Despite the arrival of the holiday, his nerves continue to maintain the high level of tension at work, making it difficult to quickly adjust and transition. So, anxiety and nervousness became one of the main factors affecting his ED this time; And his wife's youthful charm has caused him to have a vague sense of inferiority towards his own age, and it is precisely because of this inferiority and anxiety that their sexual intercourse needs to be completely relaxed. Being overly concerned psychologically can easily lead to insufficient strength.

Suggestion: Completely relax and act freely

Give up on tonics. Because most supplements are just placebos. It is recommended to fully relax with your wife during the long vacation, go swimming, or receive a massage. In the evening, don't rush to have a 5-minute quiet hug with your roommate. Relax each other, which will help stimulate Orgasm and minimize the impact of this unexpected ED.

Problem 3 of Long Holiday Sex: Fatigue Caused by Long Distance Travel

For Hai Lu, every long vacation has only one characteristic: fatigue. During a recent long vacation, due to her husband's family coming from another place to visit, the whole family embarked on a journey to Hainan. During the day, Hai Lu accompanies her family to visit major tourist attractions. At night, when everything quieted down, Hai Lu had a chance to take a break and warm up with her husband, but she was too lazy to move; However, the husband's excessive socializing and alcohol intake caused him to experience erectile dysfunction. The original idea that the couple wanted to use their vacation to have a good time in their world was dashed.

Analysis: Holiday fatigue leads to decreased libido

Many couples embark on their journey with the beautiful idea of enjoying the scenery during the day and having a romantic dream at night. However, in fact, sexual activity during long holidays is easily hindered by various external factors.

Even if you don't travel, staying at home is rare for you to enjoy relaxation. Long vacations should have been a great opportunity for couples to make up for their warmth, but they often make it exhausting to cope with. In such a state of fatigue, who has the heart and energy to have a good roommate

Suggestion: combine work and rest, quit alcohol and diet

Couples should relax, arrange holiday chores reasonably, strengthen communication, find opportunities to spend time alone, and create space for each other. If staying at a hotel during the journey, if necessary, you can first share a room and then call for a meal delivery service. After the climax of sexual intercourse, you will feel particularly hungry and enjoy the delicious food.