Post Date April, 15 2023
When chatting online yesterday, a netizen told me his most real feelings in his heart. From his intermittent words, I can easily know that I am sad and helpless as a man. He said: I am 40 years old this year, and everything is beginning to change very quietly. There is no young impulse. Think about myself, I have been busy looking for a job since I graduated from college, because it is hard to find a job, First, I served plates in a restaurant to make a living, then I sold them to a sales company, and then I started to work as an insurance company. After ten years of work, I finally found my girlfriend in a panic and became a family at the age of 30.
After marriage, I work hard and love my wife well. I always take the initiative to resolve and ease some conflicts, because I know that home and everything is happy. I should cherish this hard-won marriage and family. Although I didn't fall in love during college, there is no regret. Life is so real, without any fake. Ten years have passed in a blink of an eye, and I have many feelings in my heart.
He went on to say that I have summarized ten views on marriage and hope to share them with you.
01. Do one's job with one's heart and mind, and don't excessively pursue the possession of lovers in college. This is not because I didn't mean to eat grapes and say grapes are sour. I didn't fall in love because I didn't have any skills, and men with skills will still face the crisis of rupture when they graduate. There are many reasons, but the answer is still too young and impulsive.
02. The space between two people is good, but when you have a girlfriend, you still need to keep a certain distance. That distance is not to avoid it deliberately, but the two people are standing with each other, one in front of the other, and the other in order. After many years, you can still enjoy the best place of each other, such as the lacquer-like lovers, which will always lead to inevitable disputes and quarrels.
03. Double mindedness is the biggest taboo for men. The most important thing for men is to pay attention to responsibility. What women value most about men is the implementation of responsibility. Men who still enjoy every flower and grass on the street after marriage are the most painful for women. When women still can't stand this pain, the solution to the problem is usually divorce. But women should know that perfume is poisonous. There are many examples around them.
04. Women despise being absent from work. Even if you are the best husband and wife, it is always the greatest consolation for a man to help his wife do some housework properly. Even if you are very busy all day long, don't you end up spending a beautiful night with your wife? If one day you are faced with a siege, even if you can't save it, it is better to do it early.
05. The body of a five-foot man may not be what every man has, but it is what women want to have. What women want is an umbrella for a man in rainy days, a big coat in the cold snow in winter, and a small iron spoon for feeding soup and medicine when they are ill. This is the usual sense of security. You can say that you don't have a big body, but you need to do all the care for men's safety.
