Post Date April, 15 2023
Harmony between husband and wife is a subject, and marriage is the subject of this subject. Therefore, in order to maintain happiness and sweetness, both husband and wife should step up "learning". The following eight courses are recommended for couples to learn. I hope they can help you in your marriage.
Course 1: Learn to respect
Love him or not, respect him. Of course, on the premise that he respects you. A marriage without dignity cannot be happy.
Lesson 2: Learn to forget independence
Don't resign easily. Keep some private money for a rainy day. The world is very realistic. We can leave anyone. The only thing is we can't leave money.
Course 3: Learn to communicate
Communication is not nagging, which is difficult to master. But it is better than silence between husband and wife. Silence can be compromise or contempt. But more weapons can easily destroy your feelings. Unless you have the courage to face a "cold war" like marriage. Otherwise, don't be stingy with words.
Lesson 4: Learn to maintain beauty
Married life is a file. It is easy to file your face silently. Don't expect anyone to be moved by this. Protect yourself carefully, and you will feel more secure.
Course 5: Learn to undertake
Marriage condenses the whole world into two people. You are no longer a single aristocrat who has fed his dog. We should assume our own responsibilities in the family.
Lesson 6: Learn to be inclusive
In many cases, it is not the "big events" that violate the principles that destroy marriage. Often some careless details are more lethal. It may just be a habit, an attitude. Over time, marriage has been consumed in disgust and dispute.
It's funny that the oath before marriage can't beat a pair of smelly socks in the corner. But this is the fact. So learn to be tolerant. You should know that living with a person means not only that you should enjoy his advantages, but also that you should tolerate his shortcomings and his past.
Lesson 7: Learn to trust
Sometimes, trust is to close one eye. For ever, we have no choice.
Course 8: Learn to "lose memory"
No matter how much love you have with others before marriage, it is a dream and will no longer become a reality. In order to live happily, forget it.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
