Post Date April, 15 2023
Learning the "happy principle" in positive psychology abroad can help your marriage become more and more happy.
h（help）：
The more you help your lover, the happier you will feel. Maintaining an intimate relationship relies on action, and nothing deepens your relationship more than caring and helping your loved one. Research has shown that compared to doing 5 things for a loved one every week, choosing one day of the week to do 5 things for them is more likely to make each other feel happy.
a（appreciation）：
The more you appreciate your lover, the more you can enjoy marriage. Many people become accustomed to the advantages of their loved ones after marriage and no longer view each other with appreciative eyes. But numbness can easily lead to depression, stress, and forgetting happiness. From now on, actively enjoy the time with him/her, appreciate his/her beauty and everything he/she has done for you.
p（pursue）：
The more you pursue, the more satisfied you feel. Before getting married, you put in a lot of effort to pursue her. You sent flowers and wrote love letters, and at that time, you both felt very happy. This is not only because of love, but also because pursuing itself brings happiness, making people feel independent, powerful, and confident. After marriage, you can continue to pursue the recognition of your lover or pursue the happiness of your family.
p（perspective）：
The more optimistic one is about marriage, the luckier they will be. When problems arise in marriage, optimistic people will take proactive action to solve them; Pessimistic people tend to blame each other and argue endlessly. When problems arise between couples, first stabilize your emotions, then work together to identify the root cause and solve them optimistically.
y（yours）：
The more independent love is, the longer it lasts. Everyone is a different individual, and even marriage cannot make you lose autonomy. Give each other more space and understanding, and both of you will feel much happier.
