In modern society, marriage is no longer just about finding a life partner or sharing a "long-term meal ticket" with others. It is widely regarded as an "investment". Whoever you choose is an investment: whether you choose "original stock", "potential stock", or "peak stock", you need to take risks.
In this investment, everyone has the right to make their own choices. Choice is the most important thing. You have your own choice, and you can choose whether to marry, who to marry, and when to marry.
Of course, this kind of initiative is not absolute, because people's choices are always influenced by one factor or another. Especially when encountering love or missing the best choice opportunity, sometimes the initiative will involuntarily be handed over to others or the authority will be released. However, in terms of "investment" results, only by selecting the right "investment target" and selecting the right "investment method" can the investment in marriage receive satisfactory or even surprising investment "benefits".
Marriage is an investment behavior that does not only yield benefits, but also pays a considerable "opportunity cost", so there should be no speculative psychology. Love is only a source of happiness, not happiness itself. The adjustment should be moderate and the investment should be reasonable. Only in this way can the happiness resources in marriage be transformed into real happiness. However, no matter how you choose, God will never make you perfect or completely despair.
"We invest our emotions and other things in our partners, hoping that over time, we will receive more and more rewards.". At first, we may not trust the objects we invest in very much, but over the years, we will increasingly believe in our own vision.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)