Why have you never achieved anything?
"Because you drift with the tide, those who stay close to you become black, do not want to make progress, have no money, and love face!"! Because you are afraid of your parents, you listen to your relatives, you have no opinions, and you dare not make decisions alone. You have traditional ideas. You just want to get married and have children, and then live and die. Your parents are the same. "Because you are naturally fragile and mentally retarded, and you only want to work on a regular basis.". Because you want to do a business without money, you want to sit at home and wait for the sky to sink! Because you complain about the lack of opportunities, and when opportunities come to you, you cannot seize them, because you cannot seize them! Because of your poverty, you feel inferior!
You shrink back, you dare not do anything! You don't have special skills, you only use brute force! You and your parents are in a vicious circle! Therefore, you will never do anything for a lifetime. Many people want to seize opportunities, but when they want to do something, they often find many reasons for themselves to keep themselves in conflict! Constantly wasting time, wasting it. For example:
1. I have no eloquence - wrong:
No one is born with a strong ability to speak, and speaking masters on the stage are not able to speak out at once. That is the result of countless drills behind their backs! "You are good at swearing and complaining, but this eloquence is worthless. When you watch others argue, you are full of criticism and don't know how to reflect on yourself. If you put in effort to practice, do you still say you have no eloquence today?"?
2. I don't have money - wrong:
Not without money, but without a moneymaking brain. Have you worked for several years without money? Yes, but it's spent. Spend on things that have no return on investment. "Spending on food, drink, and play or devaluing storage has not maximized value, so money cannot make ends meet.". Every month, when the moonlight clan, cycle through, without foresight, when a monk strikes a day's bell, muddle along.
3. I am not capable - wrong:
Who is capable from birth without giving themselves the opportunity to exercise? Is it a social elite after graduation? Do you succeed as soon as you start a business? When someone studies hard, accumulates hard, and tries to find a way, and you only do a little every day, it feels boring. "After learning some, I feel bored, after reading a few pages of a book, I don't want to read it, and I tell myself and others that I'm not interested in learning.". Then, for the most part of my life, I accomplished nothing and complained all day that God didn't give me a chance. Ability is cultivated through hard work. If you don't work hard to be capable, a genius will become a fool. But with hard work, even the most stupid person can become an elite.
4. I don't have time - wrong:
A lot of time, but also a lot of waste! "While others are fulfilling, you are watching TV, others are studying hard, and you are playing games to kill time.". In short, time is just a lot of spare time, and you're getting bored. "When others make money, they envy others, but do not learn from others. Take good advantage of their time to create value. They are ignorant all day long.".
5. I'm not in the mood - wrong:
When in a good mood, go play, when in a bad mood, drink at home, go shopping when in a good mood, play games when in a bad mood, enjoy when in a good mood, and sleep when in a bad mood. Both good and bad moods are the same, but they just don't do the right thing anyway.
6. I'm not interested - wrong:
What are your interests? Everyone has an interest in eating, drinking, and having fun. Without achievements, no one can have fun! Have no money to enjoy life with! What' s your interest? It's about traveling and returning to the Moonlight clan, going out to karaoke and returning to empty wallets, and going out to do a lot of shopping and returning to misery Are you interested in working? Are you interested in taking the bus? Are you interested in checking in and clocking out? Are you interested in having a large amount of money urgently needed at home and not being able to get it out? Are you still interested in borrowing money without money?
7. I consider - False:
Consider doing it. It's possible to do it. Don't be reconciled to not doing it! If you don't have a head to work all day, let's start tomorrow! On second thought, forget it. It's not easy to earn this money! No, no, it's decided not to give up the opportunity! Oh, it's getting dark. Let's talk about it tomorrow! Then the next day, because of the 12345 points above, due to thinking twice, continuing the cycle, and ultimately unable to decide. Hesitate, delay a lot of time, or achieve nothing. There is a saying: "Poor people must have something to hate!" This life is not without opportunities, but without striving and grasping! There are too many excuses, too many reasons!
Those who strive for it must strive for it, even if they have no money at all, and do everything possible to find a way! Those who do not strive for a million won't be able to move, make a fortune, or even lose. This is the lack of action! Like indecision, like procrastination, like a lifetime of mediocrity. When you are poor, stay less at home and more outside. When you are rich, stay more at home and less outside. This is the art of living.
When you are poor, don't care, be good to others. When you are rich, learn to let others treat you well. Be better to yourself.
Poor people should contribute themselves and try to be used by others. Rich, keep yourself well and be careful not to let others take advantage of you. These wonderful lifestyles are something few people can understand.
When you are poor, be generous, but when you are rich, don't be extravagant. Life has returned to simplicity and tranquility. Youth is not a fault, poverty needs no fear. Understanding how to cultivate oneself, understand what is valuable, understand what to invest in, and understand where to save is the key to the entire process.
Eat less outside. If you want to eat, please treat. If you want to treat, please invite people who are more dreamy, thoughtful, and hardworking than yourself.
Once the money you need for life is enough, the biggest expense is to use your income to fulfill your dreams, let go of your wings and dream boldly, and let life experience a different journey.
As a man, if you don't fight hard, what's your strength in life?