Sexual Health
Male sexual dysfunction may be related to sexual consciousness, and male sexual dysfunction is also related to these three factors
With in-depth research on sexual dysfunction, it has been found that some poorly treated patients subconsciously suppress sexual desire. This type of depression is usually related to early experiences. It can span long distances and affect sexual function in adulthood.
Sexual dysfunction may be related to sexual consciousness
There is a patient with primary low libido, whose parents were at odds and often made noise when they were young, but they gave birth to 11 consecutive children. The patient believes that his parents are "like pigs, living an emotionless sexual life". Since then, he has been silently suppressing the "animal sexual desire" that his parents "inherited" from him, and I have no interest in sexual life. There is also a female patient with low libido who went to the hospital with her mother when she was young. As she passed by the delivery room, she heard her mother's cry. Her mother told her that having a child is the most painful thing for a woman. After getting married, she was not interested in sex and experienced pain during intercourse every time she was in the same room.
The subconscious is an unconscious spiritual life. It is composed of people's physical desires and impulses, with strong psychological energy storage. This storage always attempts to penetrate into consciousness, causing excitement and tension in consciousness. A patient with erectile dysfunction has strong sexual desire, erection, and ejaculation at the age of 20. However, after having a girlfriend, these phenomena disappeared. The result proved that he had a deep affection for his mother. When he was in his teens, his mother died in an accident. He is very sad. His wife and mother are similar in behavior and conversation. Although he was not aware of the connection between them, subconsciously, the patient found their long lost mother. The Oedipus complex inhibits his erectile function and sexual desire, leading to impotence.
The conflict between human desires and control desires often leads to a pervasive fear, known as psychological "anxiety". Anxiety can generate many psychological defense mechanisms, among which the most important defense mechanism is depression, which can almost completely conceal psychological conflicts and prevent us from realizing their existence. A patient ranks last in the family, everything depends on their mother. After marriage, everything is handled by his wife. During his wedding honeymoon, he also had sexual impulses, followed by apathy and impotence. His wife urged him to see a doctor, but he was not urgent and didn't care if he had sex. Psychoanalysis found that there was no awareness of husband and man in his mind. His sense of marriage has some connotations that others do not have: L's family today is a continuation of his childhood family. He empathized with his past attachment to his mother. For him, his wife is not a sexual partner on the wedding bed, but a dependent object and cannot "incest" his mother. The inherent fear of incest in his consciousness stifled his sexual desire and his early instincts.