The decision of a couple to live together proves that the "magnets" between them are already tightly intertwined. However, with the passage of time, the attraction of this "magnet" is gradually fading. Until one day the suction completely disappears, the two "magnets" will separate, and marriage and family will also break down.
Maintaining attractiveness is crucial to avoid the tragedy of divorce. This suction does not come from either party, it is jointly emitted by both parties. Only by responding to each other can attraction become very strong, and the two "magnets" will be tightly combined.
Mutual attraction determines the success or failure of a marriage
What ultimately brings men and women together is attractiveness, and the loss of attractiveness is also the culprit that leads to many failed marriages. Just like the positive and negative poles of a magnet always attract each other, the most important reason why men and women attract each other is the difference between them. Therefore, if men can maintain their masculine and powerful qualities, while women can maintain their feminine and beautiful qualities, then they can maintain their long-lasting attractiveness in marriage.
Beyond attractiveness, one must not deny their own differences
Under the premise of correctly handling the conflicts caused by differences, without denying the true self differences, only in this way can couples maintain lasting attraction. On the contrary, giving up on oneself to please a partner will ultimately lead to the death of the relationship. In real life, women are more likely to give up on themselves in order to gain the favor of men, making themselves increasingly unattractive. Undoubtedly, only when
Attraction also comes from the emotions between each other
Of course, this attraction does not just refer to physical attraction. In fact, on the basis of establishing relationships, our curiosity and interest in other aspects of our partner will also increase day by day. We will be surprised to find that we are still very interested in the differences in thoughts, feelings, and actions between our partner and ourselves. Of course, the premise is to always make the emotions full of vitality, so that differences can play a role.
Under this premise, apply new marital relationship skills to make some changes, make oneself more in line with one's gender role, and continuously enrich one's own content. Through this means of enriching oneself, both spouses can deeply explore their potential selves, thereby generating continuous attraction.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)