Post Date July, 11 2023
1、 Are bleeding and pain virgins? Hymen problem is the first thing that the newlyweds contact in their first sexual life. Hymen plays a more important role than other organs in social and moral concepts. This is because its integrity has always been considered a reliable indicator, or even the only indicator, of female chastity. In fact, from the perspective of medical practice, it is not scientific to determine whether there is bleeding or pain. The characteristics of hymen vary from person to person. Whether it is bleeding or pain during the first sexual intercourse, the characteristics of hymen vary from person to person. It is thin, thick, loose, tight, big and small, and its shape is also different. Some older hymen that break due to strenuous exercise, cycling, contusion, trauma, menstrual suppository, masturbation and other causes shrink. Therefore, it is obviously unfair to judge the wife's virginity only by using hymen.
2、 What should I do if I fail my first sexual intercourse? It is also common to have failed sexual intercourse on wedding night. Analysis shows that the main causes of first sexual intercourse failure are 10% of premature ejaculation (excessive tension) or 8% of female ejaculation (excessive excitement, impatience) just before sexual intercourse. Female pain accounts for 35%. On the other hand, the first sexual intercourse failure is related to having no experience of caressing, with inexperienced people accounting for two-thirds of the failures. After the first sexual intercourse failure, one can understand one-third of the reasons, Many of the losers can successfully bond after 2-5 trials, so even if they fail, there is no need to be anxious or worried. Take a break and try again, or after one or two days when the relationship between the two parties stabilizes and the fatigue during the wedding subsides, try again. If men fail, women will feel uneasy about being criticized for not being useful or useful, and face greater psychological setbacks and difficulties. At this point, if women are reasonable and do not say anything, encouraging and comforting men, they will regain their courage and seek harmonious and happy sexual life.
3、 Can semen outflow after sexual intercourse affect pregnancy? It is a common phenomenon for semen to flow out of the vagina after sexual intercourse. In fact, each ejaculation can produce about 2-5 milliliters of semen, which contains hundreds of millions of sperm. However, there are very few sperm that can reach the fallopian tubes through the cervix and uterine cavity and wait for fertilization, usually only 15-50, and most of them do not exceed 200. Among them, sperm with excellent quality are selected as eggs and combined with marriage to complete the great cause of life continuation. Except for the outside of the uterus where most sperm are rejected, semen is discharged from the vagina. In order to prevent semen from flowing out and increase the chances of pregnancy, the female buttocks can be raised during sexual intercourse. After sexual intercourse, lie on the back for 2 hours to ensure that semen is submerged in the uterine opening and reduce outflow. Excess semen is naturally expelled from the vagina after sexual intercourse and has no impact on pregnancy.
4、 Whether to use contraception during honeymoon travel is now quite common in marriage travel, which has many advantages. However, newlyweds should not forget to pay attention to contraception to avoid sowing inferior seeds and regretting their life at this time. Due to irregular travel lifestyle, mental and physical fatigue, as well as a decrease in physical resistance, the climate varies greatly during travel, making it easy to catch a cold, mix up people, cause widespread pollution, and have poor hygiene conditions for bathing and accommodation, which can easily lead to and infect diseases. Especially the infection of rubella virus and sexually transmitted pathogens is an important cause of miscarriage, premature birth, stillbirth, fetal malformation, or secondary infertility. Medical and geneticists believe that pregnancy is best achieved through comfortable and enjoyable living conditions. From the perspective of eugenics, newlyweds who want to get pregnant early should not go on a honeymoon trip. Couples on honeymoon trips should take contraceptive measures, and it is better to conceive 1-2 months after the trip ends.
5、 What method of contraception is better for newlyweds? If newlyweds do not want to give birth prematurely, contraception can be used. It is best to use condoms and contraceptive creams to ensure contraceptive effectiveness and increase vaginal lubrication. Condoms have no side effects, are the most hygienic, and are used in a safe and reliable manner. They not only do not affect the pleasure of sexual activity, but also prevent infections between couples. Both spouses and future children are safe and reliable. If there are no other discomfort, this method of contraception can be used. After 2-3 months of marriage, women can also use vaginal septum plus contraceptives when their vagina is loose.
6、 Contraception will not affect the sexual life of newly married couples who are ready to take contraceptive measures. Among their repeated considerations, contraception will not affect the normal reaction of sexual life first. In fact, many scientific experiments have proved that male condoms, female vaginal diaphragms, oral contraceptives, contraceptive rings and other contraceptive measures not only have no adverse effects on the human body and sexual function and sexual life, but also provide freedom and psychological liberation for sexual life. The so-called sexual discomfort that some people experience is not caused by the measures themselves, but rather the result of psychological illusions, misunderstandings, and even distortions caused by long-term social impacts.
7、 What disease should not be pregnant temporarily or for life? Every newlywed couple hopes to have a healthy and intelligent child. To achieve this goal, brides with the following diseases should not become pregnant. Such as heart disease, hepatitis, nephritis, tuberculosis, hyperthyroidism, asthma, diabetes. Patients with dementia or mental illness on one or both sides of asthma should not become pregnant for life. In addition, people with severe heart disease, such as poor heart function or heart failure, must avoid pregnancy for a lifetime in order to avoid worsening the condition after pregnancy. Therefore, people with this disease must take infertility measures after marriage.
8、 What diseases should be prevented from newlyweds in the same room?
1、 Urinary tract infection. For example, urethritis, cystitis, pyelonephritis, etc. The prevention method is for both men and women to regularly clean the external genitalia. Before each sexual intercourse, both parties should clean the genitalia and external genitalia. It is best for women to urinate once after sexual intercourse and clean the external genitalia again to reduce the chance of infection.
2、 Syncope in the same room. The bride is too nervous, afraid, excited, and her heart beats faster. During sexual intercourse, she may experience symptoms of cerebral anemia, such as palpitations, shortness of breath, pale complexion, cold sweating, decreased blood pressure, weak pulse, damp and cold limbs, blurred expression, and aphasia. In this case, the bride's head should be lowered and she should drink a glass of sugar water to slowly recover. If her mind is still unclear, she should be sent to the hospital for treatment. The method of prevention is for the bride to feel relaxed and not too nervous. The relationship between the two parties should be harmonious. The groom should control himself, and his movements should be gentle and not rough.
3、 Female vaginal injury. Vaginal tears, excessive bleeding, vaginal dome damage, etc., these are the bridegroom's rough movements and overexertion. Especially after drinking alcohol, if the husband lacks self-control and has rough sexual intercourse, these accidents may occur, resulting in excessive bleeding and shock. When this situation occurs, sexual activity should be stopped and disinfected cotton balls should be used to compress the bleeding area. In severe cases, medical attention should be sought.
4、 Vaginal spasms. A very few brides do not understand sexual activity, are afraid of psychology, have vaginal spasms during sexual intercourse, sexual intercourse is not smooth, and even the penis is embedded and difficult to pull out. The method of prevention is that the bride should coordinate and not be nervous, and sexual intercourse between couples should be seen as a part of a happy life. When experiencing vaginal spasms, spasms and sedatives such as atropine and Lumina can be taken once 30 minutes before sexual intercourse. If the vagina is deformed or narrow, it should be treated at the hospital. The fifth is damage to the male penis. Some grooms impatiently enter during sexual intercourse, causing damage to the glans, rupture of the foreskin frenulum, bleeding, and severe pain. Mild cases can recover after a few days of rest, while severe cases require immediate medical treatment.
9、 How to distinguish between reactions to oral contraceptives and premature birth? Most women do not have any side effects after taking contraceptive pills, and a very small number of people may experience similar early pregnancy reactions after taking the pills, such as nausea, vomiting, poor appetite, dizziness, bleeding, or reduced menstruation. These symptoms are similar to early pregnancy reactions. Married women should consider whether they are pregnant when they experience the following four symptoms. One is amenorrhea, the other is premature birth reaction, the third is an increase in urination frequency, and the fourth is breast swelling and coloring. Premature birth reactions mostly occur around 6 weeks after menstruation stops, including dizziness, lack of energy, weakness, greed, fear of cold, poor appetite, and a preference for sour, sweet, and spicy foods. In the morning, there is a certain degree of nausea and vomiting, which may have a slight weight depending on the individual's physical characteristics. Generally, it stops for about 12 weeks and disappears on its own.
10、 Shouldn't the first child after marriage have an abortion? Newlyweds should be cautious when not having an abortion for the first time after getting married. Newly married couples who do not want to have children and have not taken contraceptive measures need to consult with the gynecology department at the hospital to choose the appropriate contraceptive method and avoid pregnancy and abortion. Of course, this does not mean that women who have not given birth must not undergo abortion. If you have to have an abortion, when is the best time? For women who have never had children, the earlier the better. At present, many hospitals have carried out early absorption surgery limited to 40 days of pregnancy, which is more suitable for women who have not given birth. Editor in charge: Liu Xin
