Post Date October, 06 2023
Falling in love requires testing all aspects of a person, not only in terms of appearance, but also in terms of emotional intelligence, which is also the reason why many people find it difficult to get rid of loneliness. Here are some moves that can help you take off your order. Let's take a look together.
1. The attitude of a girl towards you depends on your own value
If you want to pursue a girl, then you also need to put in your capital. No one will be unconditionally good to you. Except for your parents, everyone has their own needs, just depending on what you need. In fact, love is also like this. Who would make friends and become losers in life who are not valuable to themselves. So what you need to do is to make her feel that you have value and what kind of value you can provide.
2. Have your own attitude, don't kneel and lick
We don't object to treating girls well, but many men don't know how to treat girls correctly. They believe that being good to girls is simply being good to them. Obey the girl's demands for everything, afraid that if she doesn't do it well, it will make her angry. Why are you afraid of her getting angry? It's just because you're afraid she won't like you and you'll lose her. Many times, schools or elders teach us to be polite to girls, and society also promotes being polite to women as gentlemen. But most brothers only know one thing, not the other. Misunderstanding the meaning of politeness and gentlemanhood resulted in kneeling and licking.
Women will think in this way, if you treat them well, they will think that you have intentions towards them. And you must be good to her to get something from her. For example, in work, you will be very polite to your boss, afraid of offending him. Because you have an intention, your value is lower than him. And if you treat women in this way, you put yourself in a low value position.
3. Determine appointment goals
People should always be clear about what they need. When dating, if you find that the other person's appearance or personality is not what you like or doesn't respect you, then don't waste each other's time at this time and end your first date as soon as possible.
4. Maintain a good image
During their first date, many men and women did not notice this. When meeting for the first time, in order to leave a good impression on the other party, it is best to keep your mouth closed and avoid revealing chewed food or making chewing sounds during meals, in addition to normal conversation.
5. Reduce frequency of phone calls and text messages
The first date is very important. If one party keeps making phone calls or text messages, it will make people feel extremely impolite. If it is due to work issues, it is reasonable to explain the reason to the other party. Only in this way can the woman see your sincerity and respect, so it is possible to continue with the next step of the relationship.
6. Don't take office early
On a first date, whether a man or a woman hears news about their ex, it can disrupt the atmosphere. The other party will start comparing themselves with the other party's predecessor. If you meet someone who is not interesting and ask for your answer, it will only be a date with no beginning or end.
7. Don't be too frivolous in your behavior
Nowadays, the emotional life of individual young men and women is very chaotic, which is not only about their relationship but also about their own irresponsibility. Even if you are liking the other person, don't be too eager to express your feelings. You should know how to step by step, first attract their attention, and then develop the relationship. This is the long-term opportunity.
8. Ask appropriate questions
Don't try to check the household registration form, ask more questions, such as what are your life goals? Are you a person who easily gets angry? What are your interests and hobbies? What is your favorite book, movie, exhibition, or game?
9. Praise
Praise is very useful in the love world. It may be just a compliment that makes the person you love feel good about you, moving from a secret love to an open love. If you have already taken a drag, praising your partner from time to time can greatly increase your relationship, which is really a good method. However, praise should be done in a certain way, otherwise it will backfire and you may be afraid of praising things that others think are flawed. For example, if the other person is obese and you say they have a good physique; The words written by the other party are difficult to stand up to, but when you say they write well, the other party will only think that you are satirizing them. Therefore, before praising someone, it is important to think clearly and based on facts.
