Kaka divorced? Don't disbelieve in love yet. How do couples maintain their relationship

Recently, Brazilian media "Caras" reported that Kaka's marriage with Caroline had come to an end, and the woman unilaterally proposed to break up. Li Hailong, a journalist from Sports Weekly and a Brazilian Portuguese football expert, also posted reports from Brazilian media on his Tencent Weibo account. But soon Caroline's assistant came forward to refute the rumor, stating that there was no problem with their relationship and hoping that fans would not spread false rumors.

Kaka and Caroline have always been the golden couple that fans like to talk about. They fell in love at first sight when they met for the first time. Caroline was only 15 years old at that time. Then on Christmas Eve in 2005, they entered the marriage together, but now their marriage has a suspected crisis. According to news that has been wildly circulated by Brazilian media in recent days, their marriage seems to have come to an end, with numerous pieces of evidence listed -1. Caroline has been living in S ã o Paulo with her children, while Kaka has always stayed in Milan; 2. Caroline's social media account has not mentioned her card for a long time; 3. The strongest evidence is that Kaka went on vacation to Brazil this summer and was not accompanied by his wife and children, but by Kaka's cousin. Some media outlets have even revealed that the two have been separated for two months, and Caroline, through her lawyer, has submitted a divorce agreement to Kaka, hoping to peacefully end their eight year long marriage.

After learning of this news, Caroline's assistant also issued a refutation statement as soon as possible, Every year when Kaka doesn't take his wife on vacation, there are rumors of a rift between the two of them, but in the end, they all break free, so people don't have to worry about these rumors. Kaka only accompanies his brother to play for a few days, and since the child lives and studies in S ã o Paulo, Caroline also chooses to stay at home, so there is no conflict between them. The relationship between Kaka and Caroline is strong, We sincerely wish them a long life together It is reported that Kaka and Caroline have just purchased a new house in S ã o Paulo. He will go to the house to accompany his wife and children after his vacation with his family. Therefore, the news of their impending divorce seems to be another farce without further details.

There is an ancient saying in China: 'One night, a hundred nights, a couple.' It is not easy for two people to walk together, and it is even more important to cherish being a couple. So, how do couples maintain their relationship?

① We should be tolerant of each other and not deliberately change for the sake of change.

When you are deeply attracted by his unique traits, you can no longer see any shortcomings in him. When the long marriage life shows you many shortcomings in him, don't be disappointed or hopeless. Be tolerant and tolerant, and don't ask the other party to deliberately change, because deliberate change may make his traits that attract you disappear.

② Learn to be patient and not emotional

The ups and downs between couples are the seasoning of marital life. When problems arise, it is important to control one's emotions in a timely manner and learn to be patient. Impulsive behavior and words can only deepen the scars of each other's emotions.

③ To learn to care, especially in public places, wives should give face to all husbands.

Learn to care about each other as a part of yourself, and couples can find common hobbies or interests to explore together. It is also a manifestation of concern for the wife to give her husband face during a big gathering.

④ Learn to understand and establish a fair system for families.

Frequent empathy and consideration of each other's feelings can deepen each other's emotions. However, understanding and considering the other party's feelings does not mean that they will completely seek justice. We must strive for fairness, so that marriage can go smoother on the right path.

⑤ Learn to communicate sincerely.

There is a saying that goes, 'Things never stay overnight'. Couples should learn to communicate with each other regularly and sincerely. Neither party should seek to sulk or suppress their attempts.