It is necessary to carry out family sex education to promote healthy growth of children through good sex education

Adolescence is another peak period in the life curve of children, with significant physiological and psychological changes that cause confusion and annoyance. As a guardian, what kind of knowledge should children be taught and how to spend adolescence in a healthy way

Children's healthy growth cannot be separated from sex education

1. After a child is born, no matter what sex he or she is, he or she should not confuse the choice of naming, clothing, and Household goods, so as to prevent children from having vague sexual awareness of themselves and others and affecting their sexual orientation.

2. When children can hear language, parents must clearly distinguish gender education in areas such as bathing, clothing, hair styling, and toy selection. Through books, picture books, movies, stories, and more, children can observe the growth and reproduction of animals and plants, gain a natural understanding of reproduction, accept nature, love others, understand the essence of life, and achieve sexual understanding.

3. Free exploration of one's own body is a good beginning for health education. Parents should choose appropriate opportunities in family life, such as taking a shower or before going to bed, to naturally let their children know about their bodies, especially to make them realize that the reproductive organs are no more mysterious than other organs of the human body, and to keep their children clean and cultivate good hygiene habits.

4. When a child raises sexual questions, parents should not avoid them. They should use words and methods that the child can understand and accept to answer them, so that the child's curiosity and thirst for knowledge can be solved and satisfied.

5. Frequently encountered problems should be appropriately understood. How were people born? Starting from the fruit of plant flowering, it can be used to illustrate sexual and reproductive aspects, as well as to use demonstrative metaphors from animal reproductive activities. A brief introduction to the physiology of human reproduction can help children understand the problem. When conducting sex education, it is necessary to be honest and encourage children with less complex knowledge desires, naturally delaying specific details to be understood in their future lives.

6. The role model of parents' own behavior is also important. If the relationship between parents is sincere, harmonious, and morally noble, set a good example for children, let them fall in love with life, love life, and treat sexual issues correctly. Children's sex education is closely related to family education.

If you always emphasize opinions such as children and sexual issues, children in a rebellious period only want to oppose you.

2. Don't underestimate the education of boys.

Talking about sex to girls is actually very simple.

This is because when a child has menarche and is afraid or anxious, they can tell her about this topic. If the child is a boy and discovers symptoms such as dream emission, they can talk to him.

From the current situation, the education of boys is not enough, because according to the survey, girls know more about their bodies and Libido than boys.

3. Define sex as the process of love.

Explaining how sex begins - smiling, hugging, kissing, touching, sexual intercourse.

4. Boys and girls should have different educational methods.

You must teach your daughter that when a boyfriend makes such a request, she must learn to say no to her face.

Due to insufficient education, some girls just look elsewhere and don't speak, which can send the wrong message to boys and lead to pregnancy.

In addition, teach your son to presume that human reactions are dangerous. Because he may not have received verbal recognition, the defendant was eventually raped.

5. Listen to the child.

Every era has its own impression or values of sex. Think about how you treated 'sex' in the 1960s and 1970s. The more you understand your child's attitude, the clearer you will be about how to educate them.

6. Understand under what circumstances he will make sexual intercourse decisions.

Is this because when emotions are strong, is it letting nature take its course, being confused by others, or the reaction after drinking and taking medicine? Understand these and provide appropriate education.