When you start caring about someone, it indicates that you have experienced emotional attachment and developed love. Caring about making people drown and unable to extricate themselves for a long time, caring about blinding people's eyes and losing their ability to judge.
1. Care
You can care, but you can't care too much. Being too concerned inevitably leads to a dead end, causing people to worry about gains and losses, and making them restless at night. And shallow care, like a cup of thin wine and a wisp of light wind.
I really appreciate people who are cynical, that has always been a realm I believe in. They may not be without distress, they may not be without tears. But there is a filter in their brain that can eliminate waste and retain essence, separate some unhappy things, and express them in a unique way. Without a certain level of wisdom and transparency, it is impossible to do so. So their approach to caring is often unexpected
If you have it, you may lose it. If you don't get it, you will never lose it. Perhaps we can't help but care, but we can make ourselves care less.
2. Temptation
There are too many temptations in this world, the lure of color, that is, the lure of material and appearance, people are shouting: choose a simple and simple life, do not want to get lost in luxury and luxury. But how many people can truly settle for poverty?
Furthermore, there is the temptation of spirit, which is more obvious on the internet. Most people on the internet are basically mentally empty and want to find some spiritual sustenance on the internet.
For example, chatting, shrouded in clouds, mountains, and clouds, certain words happen to strike your heart, it's like spring breeze turns into rain, and the world is quiet (referring to who may have picked up wisdom). Someone's talent suddenly moved you, it's like a talented person with all their abilities. You can't help but outline the most beautiful image of this person in your mind. A woman is an extraordinary woman who values both talent and emotion, and is gentle and charming. A man is a great and talented husband who never meets his talent. So there was a hesitation and a hint of shyness. Unexpectedly, love happened online, unable to stop. It's even a few shots faster than the TV speed matching. Time and time again, I tried to pull it out, but time and time again, I fell. The will is being destroyed bit by bit, until there is no strength to struggle.
3. Feeling
Feeling is a very mysterious thing, I believe that no one in this world can control their own feelings. It looks like a ghost, and at some unexpected moment, it will make your heart beat faster. If possessed, if intoxicated, like a raging wind, like an electric shock. It comes as soon as it comes, and goes as soon as it goes. When it comes, it feels like a spring dream, leaving no trace when it leaves, and if there is no place to find in the morning clouds.
When it feels like it's coming, the mountains can't stop it either. Everything will become spiritual in that moment. When the feeling fades, the other person in your eyes seems to be just a plastic person, melting into the air.
The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference, indifference without any feeling. Hate even keeps a person serious in its heart, and occasionally bites its teeth. But without the feeling, everything will darken with time.