Sexual Health
Is it true that thirty is like a wolf and forty is like a tiger? Differences in physiological needs between men and women
There is an old saying: Women are thirty like wolves and forty like tigers. The peak period of sexual desire in women is usually 10 years later than in men, with men reaching their peak sexual ability around the age of 20, while women reach their peak around the age of 30. But research has found that this is not true, as there is not much difference in sexual desire between men and women. The best physiological age is between 20 and 30 years old, both men and women are the same, and the concept of sexual peak is a fictional one. Researchers have always believed that men have higher desires than women, as a large number of studies have confirmed this. But recent evidence suggests that gender differences may be more subtle. It doesn't even exist. It depends on how you define and measure sexual desire. Sex is a mindset. Women in their thirties are breaking free from the constraints of sexual repression. Generally speaking, the older a person is, the better their sexual experience is, and they may even reach their best state over the age of 40.50. An orgasm is the result of being 'sexy', and you can reach a peak at any age. Many people do not have such experiences due to personal fear and insecurity. Many women have been taught from an early age that sexual desire is shameful and should be ignorant, pure, innocent, uninterested in sex, lacking sexual experience (especially in East Asia) - this contributes to the social pressure of sluts' shame, making it difficult for women to control their sexual development and become sexually satisfied adults. At the age of thirty or forty, women gradually break free from the constraints of sexual repression. An orgasm is a state of mind. When they approach the age of 30.40, they may feel liberated from themselves and their partners, thereby enhancing their libido and sexual response. This means that as they age, they enter a new era of personality confidence and sexual discovery: they begin to believe that libido outweighs shame. Oppose physical discrimination and shame sluts. Understanding happiness is a human right. Knowing that sex not only means sexual intercourse, but also helps us experience intimacy and explore happiness for any age group. The same goes for men. Although young boys have longer endurance, their sexual life in their teens is often not very good. Although testosterone levels in men aged 30 have decreased, they may still be more confident due to experience and understanding. For example, a man may not fully come out and become homosexual until he is in his 40s. Therefore, the statement that women are like wolves at thirty and tigers at forty frames the time frame for people to enjoy sex the most at a fixed age, ignoring not only the background of sexual arousal, but also individual differences. Research has long been falsified. There is no correct age for the level of desire, and change is the norm. What are the differences in the "physiological needs" of men and women? Generally speaking, both adult males and females have physiological needs. Usually, there is not much difference between men's physiological needs and satisfaction. Men are more likely to be impulsive in terms of physiological needs, which can lead to an erection in their private area and complete the discharge of semen, thereby meeting their physiological needs. However, there are significant differences among women. The intensity of physiological needs is often related to factors such as physical constitution, personality, environment, marriage age, and sexual experience after marriage. As for the nature of physiological needs between men and women, the differences in physiological needs between men and women are mainly reflected in the following aspects: 1. After sexual maturity, men naturally and often have impulses for physiological needs. Women are often not. Even if there are some physiological desires, most of them are relatively weak and not as strong as men. A few women do not have physiological needs before marriage, and only during sexual activity after marriage can their physiological desires gradually develop and strengthen. 2. Men's physiological needs can be triggered at any time, while women's physiological needs often have a certain relationship with the menstrual cycle. This cyclical change mainly occurs before and after menstruation, and rarely occurs near ovulation. During this period, physiological needs are easily aroused or naturally generated. But not every woman is like this. 3. There is also a significant difference in the time required for men and women to reach orgasm during sexual activity. Once male physiology is triggered, if they do not control it, they can usually reach orgasm within a few minutes. After semen is discharged, desire immediately subsides. The physiological needs of women occur slowly. Generally speaking, reaching orgasm takes 10 minutes or even more than half an hour. During the climax phase, it remains for a long time and disappears relatively slowly. Most newlyweds are like this. For a long period of time after marriage, when a woman has significant sexual experience, the development process of physiological needs may be slightly shortened. 4. Men's desires and happiness often focus on their personal organs. Once physiological needs are activated, they will immediately have sexual demands. Women's desires are complex and widespread, and most people like love words, hugs, and so on. Only when physiological excitement reaches a certain level, happiness will focus on personal organs and willingness to have formal sexual activity. Due to the main differences in the physiological needs of men and women mentioned above, in actual sexual life, couples not only need to adapt to each other based on these differences, but also be good at using these laws to create a happy and harmonious married life.