Husbands often have two reasons for not being interested in sex: either they have an affair or their health is failing.
Especially for those who go from 3 to 4, the heavy pressure of work and life makes them physically and mentally exhausted. It has become an extravagant hope to have a good sleep and a beautiful dream. How can they have the extra energy to "roll the sheets" with their wives? However, the problem always needs to be solved. When sexual function decreases, many people first think of tonifying the kidney and strengthening yang.
But does it have to be kidney tonifying to achieve strong yang? Not really.
Decreased libido is easily mistaken for kidney deficiency
The more you move towards the age of 40, the greater the pressure on a man. There are elderly people and young people, who need to take care of their families and be busy with work. Under internal and external troubles, it often leads to mental exhaustion, decreased physical strength, and also affected sexual function. The lack of interest in sexual activity is a typical manifestation.
Many wives will find that their husbands, who used to have sex every three days or two, now have no demands for ten and a half days. They just go to bed to watch TV, play with their phones, and some even sleep as soon as they touch their pillows. Their energy and energy are far from what they used to be.
Is my husband suffering from kidney deficiency? Without any signs of infidelity, this is the reason that wives are most likely to think of. Traditional Chinese medicine believes that 'the kidney stores essence and governs reproduction', and reproduction and sexuality are closely related. Therefore, in the understanding of the common people, if there is a problem with sexual function, it is natural to infer that it is kidney deficiency, but in fact, this is not correct. In fact, it refers to the prostate gland.
From the ancient concept of traditional Chinese medicine, it was also believed that "the kidney has no excess syndrome", and the pathology is mainly based on consumption. Excessive consumption is considered deficiency, so men should exercise abstinence and maintain sperm, otherwise there will be a crisis of "not lifting".