Post Date April, 15 2023
In sex, male orgasm ends with ejaculation. But if you don't ejaculate for a long time during sex, what's the matter? Many men will have doubts about whether prolonged ejaculation is a physical problem. Next, we will explain to you, through a small example, what is the reason of persistent ejaculation during sex.
"A young man who is as strong as an ox, because of frequent business trips, his sexual life has been irregular for five years since he was married. In the past, his and his wife's sexual life has always been satisfactory to both parties, but once he encountered trouble: "At that time, my wife had several orgasms, but I could not reach the state of ejaculation after changing several positions. I was very anxious. Finally, I asked for a rest because my things were getting weaker. At this time, my wife cried and insisted that I must have been cheating with other women outside, and was unfaithful to her, and insisted on breaking up with me. I hit her in a rage. This was the first time we hit her in five years of marriage I swear I have never done anything wrong to her. What the hell is going on? "
Not every time you have sex, you ejaculate
Most people dislike the short time of sexual intercourse, but this one is too long. It's a bit unusual. It seems that this couple lacks enough sexual knowledge. Male ejaculation is a part of the whole sexual reaction. Due to fatigue or prolonged sexual intercourse, it is not surprising that ejaculation difficulties occasionally occur. Especially for middle-aged and elderly people, their erectile status is worse, and they can not ejaculate every time they have sex. This is by no means the result of men having sex outside. The main reason why the man could not ejaculate late was that he was tired and his body's reaction ability was poor after coming back from a business trip. Coupled with the long time of sexual intercourse, they naturally become weak and powerless. When the penis is slightly weak, the stimulation of the vaginal grip on the penis is weak, so it is difficult to produce ejaculation immediately. This is a temporary problem. Don't worry. After a period of rest, the reaction ability of the penis will naturally recover, as evidenced by the man's subsequent masturbation and ejaculation.
What is worrying is the way these two young people deal with it. As a wife, she doubts her husband because of such a small matter, and even threatens to break up; As a husband, when he feels wronged, he starts beating others. This way of dealing with the conflict between husband and wife will inevitably hurt each other's self-esteem and lead to the intensification and deterioration of the conflict. Don't mess with yourself and destroy the original harmonious relationship. The moon has its ups and downs, and people have joys and sorrows. The same is true of sex life. There are many successes and a few regrets. As long as we treat it correctly with scientific sexual knowledge. Will not carry a heavy mental burden.
8% of men have difficulty ejaculating
However, about 8% of men still have difficulty or too slow ejaculation. Every 20-30 minute twitch always makes their wives exhausted and makes their wives more and more angry. In fact, their wives only need a few minutes. Although they also speed up the ejaculation process by strengthening fantasy, the effect is very limited.
Take into account the feelings of the other party
First of all, it depends on whether the conflict between the two sides really lasts too long, or whether the man has not performed well despite his persistence, that is, he has not really scratched the "itch" of the woman, which will certainly not make the other party happy. Because these men often don't know how to savor each other's rose-like fragrance and keep up with each other's rhythm, they only focus on themselves and spend all their time on how to achieve their climax, without taking into account each other's feelings. In order to sing the duet of sexual life well, the cooperation of both sides is far more important than personal skills. Men can only open the gate of their orgasm as early as possible when they do well, that is, they gain great power from paying attention, tasting, inducing and feeling the reaction of the other party. In fact, men show their attraction and charm to each other in their efforts.
Middle-aged men are most likely to suffer from ejaculation
Secondly, men may have difficulty in orgasm. Middle-aged men are particularly prone to such problems, while young men rarely have such difficulties. After middle age, men's erectile ability decreases, and the hardness of the penis after erection is poor, so the friction stimulation caused by twitching is not strong enough, and they often need stronger stimulation. In addition to physical problems, it is also important to check whether the relationship between the two sides is harmonious and tacit. To solve this problem, both sides need to work together. Skills should be honed, and practice should increase ability. The difficulty of men's orgasm is like facing a deep trench. It needs a brave leap. The more timid it is, the more difficult it is to soar. The more you think about it, the heavier the psychological burden is, and the worse the situation is. At this time, you can reduce the difficulty first, and don't ask for immediate success. We must create an environment without much psychological pressure. We can jump from a narrower and shallower trench first, and then we will not be nervous. It usually starts with masturbation, and gradually explores and masters the skills to speed up sexual reaction; Then do this in front of your partner, who can watch from a distance to a close distance, and then directly participate in and help men masturbate; Finally, the partner can help the man masturbate when the penis is close to the vaginal opening. When the man is about to ejaculate, immediately insert the penis into the vagina and then twitch until ejaculation. This step-by-step training step is often an effective solution.
Drug reactions can also affect ejaculation problems
Finally, we should also consider the problem of adverse drug reactions. For example, antidepressants often have the effect of inhibiting ejaculation. If the problem of long-term medication can be ruled out, we should consider what factors can catalyze and accelerate the male orgasm reaction. What kind of position? What kind of fantasy? What kind of environment atmosphere (whether it is safe and hidden enough to be undisturbed)? And these measures are also accepted and assisted by partners, so there is no uniform prescription and procedure. If a man is really a person who lacks control ability, he will be disorganized and make a mess of everything, and orgasm is really the most difficult problem to control. Don't hold yourself back. When you feel happy, shout and let it go boldly. Men should tell each other about their fear or discomfort to gain their understanding and support, but if the other party has been and is always arrogant and superior, then consider whether such communication is safe.
