I want to hear girls talk about their first feelings. The more girls talk about pain, why do boys have more motivation

Interestingly, before I went to college, I knew nothing about men and women, and even believed that sleeping together would lead to pregnancy.

After graduating from college, I met a group of roommates who enjoy driving. They always popularize knowledge for me, so naturally they know something.

When I first talked to them, they were silent and no one had experienced it. They all feel that the first time is important and a bit scared because they hear others say that the first time is very painful.

Speaking of the end, we come to a consensus: for the first time, it should be given to the most suitable person.

The concept of the most suitable person is very vague. Whenever in a sweet love, we all believe that this is the right love, and this is the person I want to rely on for a lifetime.

As your relationship gets closer, the idea of having to do something will become stronger and stronger.

This is normal. When falling in love, one will consider the other person as the most important person.

What's scary is that you think this is the most suitable person or leave you, and from then on you haven't been in touch. The most suitable person becomes the past, the person you thought was the most suitable person in the past.

Perhaps you gave it to him for the first time, or sometimes you regret it because now he is no longer the most suitable person.

I would like to hear a girl share their first feelings (about your first feelings with your boyfriend)

The biggest fear of losing for the first time is worrying that your boyfriend will mind if you are not a virgin. This situation is not uncommon, and more importantly, some people use it as an excuse to break up.

This society always habitually believes that girls must be clean, and boys can be free and unimportant for the first time, not virgins. Anyway, boys will not suffer.

I am extremely tired of this viewpoint, and the men around me who have such thoughts have been scolded by me.

Not only for the first time, but for both men and women, your every time is precious.

No one gave it to anyone for the first time. This is not a gift, but a mutual process. You always have a special sense of love ritual, which is fair to both men and women.

If you want to ask what age is suitable for the first occurrence, there is no answer to this question, such as a millennial widow like me.

In fact, everyone is an adult, doing the right thing at the right time and with the right person, and taking responsibility for their own actions.