I scolded my husband who was cheating outside, but my mother-in-law ran out and accused me of not being qualified to scold her son

My husband is eloquent, and has risen rapidly in the company. Within two years, he has become a celebrity in front of the boss. Naturally, his salary is much higher than mine. I am a low-key person, without my husband's clever mouth, and have no great demand for career. I don't want to be a strong woman, too tired. I want to be a little woman who has a baby and makes dinner for her husband.

My requirements are not high. I don't need a big house. It's enough to live in. The car doesn't need to be too luxurious. It's enough to keep out the wind and rain. My husband agreed to my request very freely, and of course he fulfilled it for me. In the third year of my marriage, I lived in our new house as I wished, and no longer lived in a house without a fixed place. After I gave birth to the baby, he specially bought a car to take me and the baby out to play. I feel very happy.

During the confinement period, my mother-in-law moved here. Since then, she has never thought of moving away. It's inconvenient to live together, but my husband doesn't think it's any good. I'm too embarrassed to let her go. It's like driving him out. My mother-in-law is diligent. I take care of my children. She cleans up the house and helps with cooking. But one thing is that her mouth is damaged, and she doesn't have any quality education in her words. If she can rest assured, she will feel particularly upset. My husband advised me that I like to nag when I'm old, and let me go with her.

The baby is two years old. I have endured my mother-in-law for two years and got used to her work style. Although her mouth is damaged, she has no bad feelings for me and the child. In the past two years, my husband has changed a lot. In the past, he was very family oriented. As long as he didn't work overtime, he would always go home early to accompany me and my children. Now, not only do I speak with official accent, but also I often go out for entertainment. I don't care about my feelings when I do things. I don't know where the problem is. I wanted to communicate with my husband, but he said that I thought too much, and after a few words, he turned to me.

After more than five years of marriage, my friends often praised me for my good fortune and envied my life as a full-time wife. But I was angry when I thought that my husband was not caring for his family. Some time ago, he answered the phone and hurried out. I gave the child to my mother-in-law and lied that I was going downstairs to buy some daily necessities. I followed my husband all the way. He walked to the door of the community, looked around, and sat in a red car.

Half-open glass, I saw him making love with a woman. I was angry and ignored the image. I went up and shouted my husband down, tore up with the third girl, hit her a few times while in chaos, and she drove away angrily. I scolded my husband for being shameless. The people in the community heard the voice and stopped to see us. My husband felt humiliated and took me home to explain. When I got home, I closed the door. I couldn't suppress my anger and kept quarrelling with him.

The mother-in-law rushed out when she heard the voice. She not only didn't speak fair, but also scolded me for being a womanly family. She was too lenient and said that her son was not easy to make money. She played tricks outside to make me less trouble. Usually, she can't talk badly. Now that her son is cheating, she still says such ugly words. I couldn't bear it. I packed up and took the child back to my mother's house. At the moment when I walked out of the room, I suddenly felt so empty. After several years of love, I got such treatment from them. I really don't know how to get married?

Reply from the consultant:

The affair of her husband's cheating has violated the morality itself. As a mother-in-law, she not only does not speak fair words, but also makes you suffer. Her ideas are too old. In today's society, monogamy is practiced. If her husband's behavior is tolerated, the world will be in chaos.

It's really hard for you to face such wonderful mother and son. But calm down and still need to be solved. After all, if you want to break up your marriage for several years, we should also give you a reasonable explanation. In addition, only by participating in social activities more, enriching your life, constantly improving yourself and diverting your attention can you live better in the future.