Post Date April, 15 2023
The road to marriage has never been smooth. You only see what others call happiness in your eyes, but you don't know the sadness behind others. The so-called "open mind" is due to the experience of wind and rain in life. If you want to save your marriage, you need to use philosophical thinking to guide you, because philosophical thinking will guide you to accept the status quo, maintain sunshine, and move forward courageously.
1、 Philosophical thinking requires us to establish practical thinking
In the ways to save marriage, the greatest truth actually comes from practice. "For what reason did the marriage of two people break down? As an outsider, it is difficult for a clean official to handle household matters. The most important thing is that you have reconciled the temporary conflicts between the two people, and there is no guarantee that the two people will be able to get along well in the future.". Therefore, it is even more necessary to use philosophical thinking to guide the two person world. You can try to create more surprises for the other person. You can start giving gifts that the other person has been looking forward to for a long time. You can try inviting the other person to a movie. You can try making a big dinner for the other person and observe their reactions. Philosophical thinking allows you to manage your marriage from a practical perspective. Do something you haven't done for each other before. "Not mentioning the past, forgetting the past, valuing the present, and being brave in practice are the foundations for saving marriage and re accumulating emotions.".
2、 Philosophical thinking allows us to establish contradictory process thinking
Philosophical thinking refers to the law of negation of negation in the development of things. Generally speaking, the cycle of development of things includes three stages, namely, the affirmative stage, the negative stage, and the negative stage of negation, which is the new affirmative stage, reflecting the ups and downs and twists of the development path of things. The law of negation tells us the contradiction in the process of marriage. Two people were originally two parallel lines, but because of love and marriage, there was an intersection. When two people are together, conflicts are triggered due to various trivial matters, followed by a cold war or argument, gradually losing their common language, and the two people want to return to their original parallel position. However, after a period of calm thinking, due to lifestyle habits or emotional dependence on the other party, both parties often only remember the other party's good intentions, so conflict is also the driving force for emotional sublimation. Under this contradiction, if one party can take the initiative with generosity, it is easy to retrieve their marriage and rebuild a happier life.
3、 Philosophical thinking allows us to establish a realistic thinking
Philosophical thinking teaches us to examine the objectivity of things and understand things as they are, which means that we should establish a realistic thinking. Generally speaking, before marriage, we see what the other person looks like, and after marriage, we usually see what the other person looks like. However, many people often ignore this fundamental principle and always hope to mold the other person as they wish. If the other party does not meet their own standards, they will feel very disappointed or unhappy. Before marriage, everyone values the interests of the other party very seriously. At that time, they loved each other deeply, but after marriage, they often ignored each other due to some trivial matters in life. Many women toss and turn blindly after marriage, but in fact, being a husband cannot conquer their own wife. Many husbands often miss their husbands, but it is actually wives who cannot tie their hearts to men.
In marriage, if you want to grow old together, you need to understand the true meaning of stormy life. When you keep your heart open and can understand the process of marriage with philosophical thinking, you will find ways to save your marriage. Please believe that whoever you meet in a marriage is the best arrangement in life. What you need to do is to manage your marriage with heart and cherish the people you should cherish.
