Post Date April, 15 2023
Women's marriage is the ultimate destination, so they should take good care of their marriage at all times. Especially when it comes to marriage, women should clearly understand what kind of psychology men are. Well, let's take a look at it with the editor.
Man's first emotional stop: before marriage
Before marriage, men want to have a beautiful, knowledgeable, courteous and gentle woman with them.
Because of its beauty, it is close to the "eye", which is both pleasing to the eye and "beautiful to eat"; Because knowing books and etiquette must be well educated, self-restraint, grace and charm like crape myrtle in the TV series "Huanzhu Ge Ge"
In that way, a man's face is bright and his heart is balanced; The reason why gentle women are favored by men who are full of masculinity is that the feminine beauty of women can make men's overly "rigid" character produce a kind of harmony
"Yin and Yang complement each other" and "hardness and softness complement each other".
It is no wonder that our mentor Marx most appreciated the virtue of women is the word "gentle". It can be seen that "gentleness" is the secret weapon of women and the "killer mace" of men's emotions. Therefore, countless men have become women's "prisoners".
Men's second emotional stop: after marriage
Married men not only rely on women, but also obey them. Because of the love of a good wife at home, men deeply feel that it is good to have a home. Therefore, home has become a man's "resting harbor", "warm paradise"... In order to live up to his wife's expectations, men tend to be more angry, more progressive and more promising in their career.
With the passage of time, men have achieved success in their careers. The "honeymoon" between husband and wife is no longer "honeymoon". As we get along with each other day and night, what is new is no longer new, and what we know is already understood, thus entering the "run-in period" of the relationship between husband and wife. As the year goes by, there is a "seven-year itch" for men.
At this time, because of the frequent social contact and the increase of temptation, men's state and performance are unusual when they face the woman they want, regardless of their purpose. First, it shows lofty ideals and extraordinary customs
Son, win with outstanding professional level; Second, they show that they are highly talented or highly educated. They know astronomy, geography, music, chess, calligraphy and painting. They are omniscient and omniscient, as if they are knowledgeable and can predict the future;
Third, the language is witty and humorous. No matter what kind of teaching, or the topic of "art in the room" in ancient times can be understood and explained. It is called sublime science and advocates civilization. Even sensitive topics that women think can be ripped off their faces and talked about in a special way, just like pearls of pearls and pearls. It can be said that it is in a perfect state of "deep feeling has its own poetry, and deep meaning has its own rhyme".
The third stop of men's emotions: extramarital affairs
Admittedly, speaking comes from speaking and performance comes from performance. When men face extramarital feelings, there are only two situations.
First, as one female writer described, "A man is a dog. Based on the different structure, he should go out to pee a few times in his life. There is no need to make a fuss. Anyway, he is still going home and loyal
Yes, dogs are loyal. " This passage confirms the secular evaluation of men: "I like the new but not the old." Some people compare this man's feelings to "Shaobing (Baked cake in griddle)", which can be divided into several pieces and fall in love with several women at the same time.
Secondly, men are purely lecherous. In the face of women with different styles, temperament and appearance, they always show envy in different ways and different performances
The greed of "Li". To tell the truth, most men just stay in the stage of "lust", instead of becoming "selang". They hold the status of "treating each other as a guest", "being aloof" and a certain distance to the women around them
Will easily offend her and take possession of her.
For this kind of "just say and don't do" man, if you ask him why he likes to appreciate "beautiful women"? He would call it "young with mentality". It seems that women's beauty has added another value. For most men, there is no "use value", but also "appreciation value"
But if you know what men want, what can you do?
In fact, about ten thousand changes can't be left behind. The most important thing is not to lose yourself
