Post Date July, 11 2023
How to view children's rebellious mentality correctly? Children in adolescence always face their parents, and some people can last for several years. Reverse psychology is an inevitable stage in children's growth. how to treat children's rebellious psychology correctly?
1. Quietly changing children with positive hints
As long as you understand a child's mood, you should actively suggest that in reality, every child will gradually change. At that time, it may not necessarily work, but in the long run, implying in this way that the child will change in silence.
Nowadays, many parents believe that their children's resilience to setbacks is weak. In order to grow up in adversity, they intentionally cause many setbacks for their children, but this method does not help improve their resilience. Experts say that due to the many setbacks children face in their growth process, what is truly needed is positive guidance, so that children can face these setbacks correctly and see positive significance from each setback event.
2. Don't blindly blame children
Sometimes, reverse actions may be targeted at you, but in reality, they may not be. The family has been visiting the elderly at their grandparents' house at 10 o'clock on Sunday morning. One day, my son announced that he would wake up late and not participate in the group activities the next day. His parents were already very angry, which can indicate the resistance of teenagers towards their families. However, they did not do so, but calmly asked the reason. It turned out that the child had been busy with the school newspaper the day before and was really tired. So the family changed the time to go to their grandparents' house to 2pm in the afternoon.
3. To grasp the moderation of criticizing children
Regardless of the method, criticizing children in any situation will not reveal all their past experiences. Children will be belittled and distressed at will. When teaching children, they will criticize their personalities together with others. When criticizing children in front of others, children feel that their parents have not left any children behind, and they will leave ugly people in public. The resentment and anger in their hearts will naturally flow to their words. Regardless of the situation, criticizing children, Children feel that their parents are unfair to them, just doing something wrong, but in their parents' eyes, they seem to have never done it before.
