A person's life is a process full of challenges, risks, and hopes. In this process, marriage always has a profound impact on people. After falling in love and entering marriage, couples experience countless struggles and hardships. Because small things in marriage can bury all romance. How can couples smoothly pass the transition period?
Firstly, one must understand some of the philosophies of marriage
Marriage is like holding onto the sand in one's hand. The more you catch, the more you leak. The more you care, the more you lose. So, learn to let go. Since there are constant disputes with the other party over certain matters, it's best to listen to their opinions. To let the other party know their own good and understand their own good, they must learn to shut up when they should. Don't let the other party affect your mood. At the same time, do not affect the other person's mood yourself. Give each other some space and give the relationship a period of relaxation. Only in this way can you go further in the future.
Secondly, we need to learn to empathize
Sometimes it's best to think from a different perspective. You can choose to go far away, you can choose to go out and see, you can choose to listen to others' opinions. Let you have a new understanding of the issues between you. Or you can listen to how other people handle conflicts and contradictions in marriage. Only after experiencing these processes will you understand that the most difficult thing to change in this life is always yourself. If we know how to change ourselves and ourselves, then we will not misunderstand others. Our biggest focus should be on our own inner growth.
Once again, make your life fulfilling
If the days are not busy enough, it is easy to shift the focus to the other party and overly care about their opinions and ideas. If you can keep yourself busy, it will change your self-awareness and give the other person a new understanding and perspective on yourself. If you know how to keep yourself busy, then you can't handle your own affairs, how can you have the heart to manage the other person's affairs? So, during the transition period of marriage, you need to understand how to shift the center, rather than strengthening conflicts. You need to learn to silently adhere to the mundane, rather than exaggerating the mundane. When you get used to the state of life, you can easily pass through any situation.
Finally, don't let others affect your emotions
It is important to know that both the other party's family and one's own family often only consider issues from their own perspective. So, you can't fully understand their actions, but don't let these people affect your emotions. Because only one's own opinions are important. The actions of others are not important, only the actions of others are important. When you understand these things and understand them, you will understand that the greatest discovery in life is that you have opened up many things and come up with many ideas.
Life is inherently a process of change. When you understand how to accept the gifts of life and the arrangements of fate calmly, when you understand how to find your own happiness and update your knowledge, you will become very powerful. This strong foot can support you through various bumps and mud. As for the opinions of others, they have long ceased to matter. Because your world is ultimately yours.