Male reproductive health is unable to erect. Erectile dysfunction (ED) and impotence are common sexual function problems in men, affecting about 40% of men and 70% of men over 40 years old. Male reproductive health is under great pressure. Some men open their partners. There are some principles to help you talk more easily about male reproductive health and your partner.
Proximity issues
Educate yourself. There are many misunderstandings. You should educate you and your partner about the reasons for ED and clarify these myths. Some common myths include:
ED is part of aging. This is not correct. It's not just the older men. Some young people may have other health problems or psychological problems.
Drinking makes sex easier. Drinking before sex may cause more problems, because drinking will aggravate ED.
You can't talk about ED with your doctor. It's not true. ED is a disease, you should talk to your doctor.
There is no cure for ED. In reality, almost all ED can be cured.
2 Choose the right time and place. Maybe you are worried about your partner's erectile dysfunction. There is a plan to determine the best time and place for heart-to-heart talks.
Make sure that you and your partner will be most comfortable in the place you choose. Maybe the bedroom is not about avoiding the bedroom with such a sensitive topic.
You are ready to open it. Sometimes it is difficult to find the right words to call her a sensitive topic. You think in your conversation. It may be the easiest way to tell your partner that you don't want to talk about your erectile dysfunction.
For example, you might say, "I'm really embarrassed to say this, but I want to talk about my problem when we have sex."
Be open and honest about your feelings. You need to know how you feel about erectile dysfunction. How do you explain your emotional impact and emotional state. So when you help your partner better understand your current situation and support you.
For example, you may say, "I feel that our relationship has changed completely. Who wants to maintain economic growth with a man and strive to stay in bed. When I start to like this idea, I just want to stay alone."
5 Listen to your partner. Try to understand that your partner may have many questions and worries to share. Open your partner.
You will find the conversation uncomfortable, even a little awkward. Your partner may express emotional doubt and despair. This is normal, but remind yourself that you have overcome difficulties and you should be proud of yourself.
Avoid blaming games
Don't blame yourself. Various emotions you may experience, including blaming yourself. Male sexual excitement is a complex process, including brain, hormones, emotions, muscles and blood vessels, as well as many different physical and psychological problems. It is meaningless and futile self-blame.
Don't blame your partner. Sometimes it's easy to squander when facing life challenges. However, this is only counterproductive, leading to resentment and sadness.
For example, avoid accusations, such as "you need to wear sexy underwear," or "if you don't value me, I won't have this problem."
3 Rest assured of your partner. Your partner can also share his or her own guilt. They may want to know if they are responsible for producing or aggravating your impotence.
Try to understand and support your partner's feelings. Your partner may worry that you find him or her no longer attractive. Try saying, "I think you are beautiful, but I still attract you. This is how I feel about you."
For example, you may find that your partner says, "I don't think you think I am attractive, when I was young," or "Maybe I just put on too much weight." You can say through a statement of relief, "That's not true. You have a beautiful life like yours. I'm not your incompetence."