We often say that marriage is not easy, and only by possessing the qualities to shoulder it can we learn to solve problems correctly. Overcoming the obstacles in marriage and saving love, with these preparations, we are able to carry on the marriage to the end.
Marriage is not possession; But rather a rational respect, equal coexistence; Love in marriage is a form of understanding and tolerance. It needs two people to bear it together, what it needs is me in you, you in me! In many unfortunate marriages, there was not a time when they had such a sense of happiness. The person they were waiting for in this life was the one they chose now. Unfortunately, life is cruel, and there will never be smooth sailing in life. After a period of sticky happiness, the relationship between the two people will soon become problematic. In fact, many divorced couples have a similar thing in common, which is the way they make different decisions and handle common conflicts, such as money, children, family relationships, and so on.
Whenever there are problems in marriage, there are often many women who do not reflect, do not know how to introspect, but blindly use divorce to solve them. Of course, there are also some men who do the same. Actually, everyone should understand that when there is a problem with a relationship, it cannot be just one party's fault, and women are not the only ones who are hurt? So women should not easily position themselves as victims. If you really hope to have a happy life and a happy marriage, then you must learn to face and take responsibility, and understand tolerance and forgiveness. To save a marriage in crisis, both parties need to first regain the understanding and trust they once had, rather than just searching for their own right and wrong and complaining.
If you don't want to divorce and want to maintain this marriage, you must awaken the other party with old love, after all, most of them get married through free love, and there is still a certain amount of affection between them. When there is a crisis in marriage, the first thing to do is to find the reasons for oneself and what aspects are not doing well enough. Then, find an appropriate time to actively communicate with the other party calmly. If one does not do well, take the initiative to take responsibility and correct it as soon as possible. It's the other party's advice, not gentle persuasion, to eliminate conflicts and barriers. Whether men or women, they need to have a stable job or profession and cannot rely too much on each other in life. When you lose your job, your economic position in the family, your vision becomes smaller and your mind is narrow, and your Lebensraum becomes tense, especially for women. For the sake of their family, they look after their husband and teach their children at home, and unconsciously give up their career. After a long time, their beauty is gone, and their old age makes men change their minds. When you wake up, it is too late.
The common ground of marital happiness lies in whether two people's hearts are on each other, whether they will always think for each other, and whether they have learned to empathize. When one party's heart no longer thinks about the other, then such a marriage is bound to lose happiness. Why are there not many happy people in this world, just because there are too few wise people in this world! Dear compatriots, no one can truly help anyone, only oneself can help, because luck or happiness are all controlled by your own hands and an attitude towards life. Please use your own wisdom and wisdom to create a happy life path and a happy marriage and family for yourself!