The first time sexual activity is caused by excessive fear and coma, which belongs to sexual phobia. This situation mainly occurs due to a lack of sexual knowledge. I have little knowledge about sexual activity in my daily life, and I have an inexplicable fear of sexual activity. I imagine sexual intercourse to be terrifying, painful, and can cause bleeding. The terrifying emotions formed before marriage made her view marriage as an powerless burden. In this way, the first sexual intercourse on the wedding night often fails due to the bride's fear.
Some young women are deeply influenced by feudal consciousness, and sleeping with men is considered low-level and indecent, dirty, sexual intercourse, pregnancy, male enjoyment, and female suffering. The mind is filled with various anxieties and fears woven by oneself. During sexual intercourse on the wedding night, it is easy to experience anxiety and fear, vaginal spasms, inability to insert the penis, pain during sexual intercourse, and severe coma during sexual intercourse.
Sexual tension
It is an ordinary adult male or female who, when subjected to strong sexual stimulation, cannot help but develop sexual desire, generate sexual excitement, accumulate to a certain extent, and hope for sexual contact, release performance, and relax the body and mind. This physical and mental state caused by sight, hearing, touch or people's sexual fantasy is called sexual tension.
Human tension response is a product of the synergistic effect of biological, psychological, and social factors. Vertically, in a person's lifetime, after male puberty and sexual maturity, sexual tension reactions are strongest, with the most frequent occurring in women around the age of 35, and sexual tension reactions gradually reaching their peak. From a horizontal perspective, after male development and maturity, the testicles and their accessory gonads continuously produce sperm to produce seminal plasma. When the semen in the vas deferens is filled, various swelling sensations and strong desire for excretion are generated, and the sexual tension response is significantly increased. Women usually experience ovulation in the middle of their menstrual cycle, when the follicles mature, estrogen secretion increases, and the vestibular gland and vagina secrete vigorously. They have a strong sexual tension response and are prone to reaching orgasm.
The response to sexual tension is influenced by the social environment and is constrained by individual psychological qualities and ideological and moral norms. People with poor psychological quality, weak willpower, and weak legal concepts are prone to strong sexual tension reactions to sexual stimuli in their surroundings, which may lead to the occurrence of sexual deviance. Judicial practice has proven that in the summer, people wear thin clothes, with more exposed bodies and strong sexual appeal. Among sexual offenders such as harassment, adultery, and rape, pornographic materials and places are important stimuli for stimulating sexual tension. Some people lose rational control over sudden sexual impulses, and engage in thoughts and emotions that are not in line with social morality, and even engage in illegal and disorderly behavior.
The ultimate way out of sexual tension is to vent and release performance. However, human sexual desire has distinct characteristics compared to other instinctive desires such as appetite. After being influenced by social civilization and culture, human tension can be cleverly controlled by reason. In situations where the environment does not allow for venting, the release time can be extended or attached to other social goals, sublimating into a source of creation.
A Little Trick to Solve the Embarrassment of First Night
The first time for virgins and virgins must be very touching, but in terms of male impotence, premature ejaculation, prepuce rupture and bleeding, virgins are worried about pain, hymen rupture and bleeding, urinary incontinence, lower body odor, etc. These phenomena can actually be solved by scientific methods.
Premature ejaculation during first sexual intercourse is very normal. When encountering this situation, there is no need to be nervous. You need to accumulate experience, and next time you can calm down without affecting your abilities. As the number of sexual intercourse increases, the Vietnam War becomes stronger.