How to reach Orgasm with psychological barriers? Getting rid of the six burden mentality and making sex more leisurely

To achieve Orgasm in the life of both sexes requires complete psychological integration of both parties to reach the highest level, so when making love, we must overcome psychological barriers to reach a higher peak of Orgasm.

1. Terrorist psychology

This kind of psychology can be roughly divided into three types: one is afraid of pregnancy, giving birth to children, tense thoughts during sexual intercourse, and unable to fully devote oneself; The second is to worry about the pain of hymen rupture, which can cause too much mental burden and affect emotions; Thirdly, some women have been raped by unfamiliar men before marriage, and have an instinctive resistance towards men. Even if they have sex with their husbands, they still have lingering palpitations. As a husband, we should patiently guide patients to take medication when dealing with symptoms, and at the same time, we should step by step in the "operation" and not act too hastily.

2. Not in a good mood

Xiaolan used to have sex with her husband very harmoniously. However, she has been depressed since her husband, who had poor performance in the factory, stayed on without pay and could not find anything to do for a while. She has been "sitting down" for three days. It is difficult for her husband to reach Orgasm when he makes love with her and uses his unique skills. However, as long as her husband finds a suitable job and realizes his life value, her symptoms will naturally disappear.

3. Lack of experience

Sexual experience, like other experiences, must be gradually acquired through practice. There are many girls who are embarrassed to communicate with their peers, and it is not convenient to "ask for advice" from their superiors. They do not know what "female Orgasm" is. For example, there was a pediatrician who had been married for two years and did not know what was called "Orgasm". Doctors are still like this, and other women are naturally more ignorant. There is only one solution: practice more and gradually explore skills through practice.

4. Subordinate ideology

Many girls are in a "subordinate position" in their marital sexual life. They believe that having sex with their husbands can only be "dedication", not "taking", and "obedience" is the nature of women. Therefore, their enjoyment of sexual life can only come from experiencing her husband's level of sexual satisfaction, which naturally suppresses their feelings. I advise such women to open up their minds and have absolute equality between men and women in sexual love.

Avoiding 6 Burden Mindsets to Make Sex More Calm

1. Don't force your partner to have sex.

There are certain differences in sexual abilities between men and women, and individual sexual abilities also decline with age, which is a natural law. Of course, sexual desire is also influenced by work, emotions, health, and other factors. There are always differences in sexual desire between men and women, so it is not necessary to require partners to maintain consistency, otherwise it may make sexual activity mechanical and lose "sexual interest" over time.