Whenever there is a mistress, you, as the principal, must fight against the mistress to defend your marriage. The third person may be younger than you, more beautiful than you, and more likely to please men than you. Once you take the wrong approach or even let it go, it is likely that the marriage will break down waiting for you. However, if you use excessive force and are too direct to understand wisdom in the process of fighting Xiao San, it will only backfire and fail to achieve the goal of maintaining family stability. In fact, the best way is to let the other party know the difficulties and retreat, not only without you putting down your figure to tear your face, but also to achieve the goal. So how should we make Xiaosan surrender voluntarily?
First, know yourself and your enemy and win every battle.
Before taking the initiative, you need to fully understand this person and understand her various characteristics before you can better suppress her. Remember, always show the courage that a main room should have, and no matter what method you take, you must first stand firm in your momentum. Even if you are worried and flustered, you should never show it in front of the third child. You should always fight her with a state of mind that disdains her and doesn't even pay attention to her. When the opponent knows that he or she is not in the same position as you, it is easy to reveal his or her inferiority complex and panic mentality. A panic can reveal a horse's feet, and you can grasp her tail to balance her.
Second, hit the snake and hit it seven inches.
We should explore various ways to understand why this woman is with her husband, whether it's for money or for people, or for other more complex reasons. We can only better grasp the key point by thinking through empathy and standing in the perspective of the other party. Knowing what she wants can make her retreat from difficulties. If she asks for money, you should take control of the finances of your family and never let it fall into her pocket. If she wants someone, you should let her see the happiness and happiness of your family together, and let her understand that she can never drive you away or replace your position in your husband's heart. Once she realized for herself that she couldn't get what she wanted, she would naturally surrender.
Third, the Huairou policy.
"The Huairou policy here refers to the internal policy of taking measures at home, in addition to outwitting junior students.". No matter what reason your husband is hooking up with you behind your back, there must be something you can change. Emotional discord? Sexual disharmony? Seeking stimulation? Or it may be influenced by other factors. As long as you carefully reflect on your daily life and think from his perspective, you can more or less know the reason. Then the next step is to apply the right medicine to the situation, awaken his feelings for you, and make your life not unchanging and boring.
Marriage is like a long journey in life, where you will encounter many people and things along the way, and occasionally you will be attracted by the roadside scenery. How to make marriage go on for a long time is a topic for everyone of us. How to manage, how to deal with the third child, how to let the third child retreat despite difficulties, and how to fight this marriage defense war are all issues that we need to seriously consider. It should be noted that in fact, marriage preservation works in ordinary times. Spend more time with your family, express your love, and don't wait for a crisis to start regretting. Of course, the enemy is already in sight, and it is even more necessary to take the initiative bravely to attack. Do not do anything to kill the enemy and self harm them!