Sex is an important part of a couple's life. Harmonious and harmonious sexual life is a natural physiological need for both men and women, and it is a common wish of both spouses. Both parties have the obligation to cooperate closely and have the right to achieve it together. From the stimulation of sexual excitement to the emotional communication of sexual behavior, from the physical and mental engagement of both parties to achieving orgasm together, it plays an important role in sexual life.
If one party lacks understanding of sexual knowledge, or if one party holds a negative attitude, then both parties cannot achieve emotional harmony. Especially for women, the role of sexual psychology has a greater impact, and men need to understand this characteristic in order to better play a positive role in their marital life.
Many women are afraid of being looked down upon by others and strive to suppress their true reactions and emotions, in order to show self-respect and aloofness. Some women have a strong sense of conservatism and believe that sex is a task that must be completed, adopting a passive and passive attitude. Shyness, reserve, cowardice, and the inherent negative psychology of women can hinder stimulation and accelerate sexual excitement. It is unrealistic to expect them to consciously break free from these psychological constraints, especially for a few women. If their sexual desire before marriage is weak, it will be even more difficult to break free from these constraints. The results indicate that it is essential for women to learn to engage in active sexual activity in order to satisfy themselves with sexual pleasure and satisfy both parties.
Men's sexual response characteristics determine their strong libido, which can be stimulated at any time and rapidly develop to a state of excitement. Moreover, women can only achieve orgasm before and after ovulation, and even so, their rate of excitement and excitement is much slower than that of men, and it is hidden. Before and after puberty, male sexual desire spreads around the genital area, while female sexual desire gradually concentrates in the genital area. After middle age, men begin to generalize, while women tend to concentrate on reproductive accumulation. Therefore, men tend to focus more on sexual intercourse, while women have a wide range of sources of sexual satisfaction. Men can only bring happiness through ejaculation, while women can also bring happiness through childbirth, breastfeeding, and so on.
Both spouses have their own characteristics during sexual intercourse. Only by understanding the structure and function of the male and female reproductive organs, paying attention to each other's reaction patterns and special desires, can they achieve the beauty and harmony of sexual intercourse.
The psychological characteristics of men and women are different. Men take pride in their own strength and satisfy both parties, while women affirm their attractiveness through sexual satisfaction. Therefore, the performance of men and women in sexual dysfunction is also different. Men are most prone to malfunctions in terms of whether sexual intercourse can be completed, mainly due to erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation. Women are prone to problems with sexual satisfaction, mainly manifested as low libido and lack of orgasm. If there are no common demands, mutual understanding and respect in sexual life, it will harm each other's emotions, even cause each other to lose interest, and even cause sexual dysfunction, leading to marriage breakdown.
Therefore, in order to achieve a happy and harmonious sexual life, it is necessary to pay attention to the following points: both parties should have sexual desire and impulses, and cannot be forced. Both people should focus and not be distracted. The sexual excitement and pleasure of two people should be mutually transmitted and excited. Including facial expressions, posture, language, intonation, and more. People in love like to get to know each other, make each other happy, give and provide everything they need. Love requires time, sincerity, and rapid emotional communication. Only on the basis of understanding and respect, coupled with a comprehensive understanding of sex, can a couple's life be harmonious and fulfilling.