Many people do not find their partner through free love and need to find their partner through blind dates. However, they find that many blind dates end in failure. So how can blind dates be successful? In fact, the most important thing in blind dates is to attract the other party.
Successful blind dates not only focus on first impressions, but also strive to improve one's own abilities and qualities. Below is an introduction to how blind dates can be successful, what are the benefits of blind dates, and how to help people who are currently or preparing for blind dates prepare and improve the success rate of blind dates.
What to pay attention to during blind dates
1. Don't dress too formally. Generally, guests can wear more serious casual clothing. Just pay attention to cleanliness and stand at attention.
2. Boys should be more proactive. If the other party has questions, they should ask them first. They should answer them carefully and ask back appropriately. Boys are the main force in control, and the cold shoulder is the responsibility of the men. However, the women can also adjust the atmosphere appropriately.
3. The topic of the first meeting cannot be discussed deeply, just exchanging basic work, family, family, friends, and education information. If the conversation is pleasant, you can also talk about your hobbies, hobbies, and food preferences. Avoid discussing political, religious, ethnic, and social conflicts that are prone to disputes, and do not just explore the other party's love history. You should talk about your own style and give the other person the opportunity to speak.
4. In fact, impressions can only serve as a stepping stone in blind dates. The success of blind dates mainly depends on one's own conditions. As long as you do yourself well during blind dates, don't be too nervous and be confident.
What are the benefits of blind dates and finding partners
The first benefit: Clear goals, I believe many women will be very worried about whether they can enter the marriage hall with their boyfriends. However, if you choose blind dates, you won't have this kind of worry because it means blind dates. Do you think people who don't want to get married will go for blind dates? Everyone has a clear purpose, no need to waste time!
The second benefit is that there will be no unnecessary incidents. I have seen many couples who are unhappy with each other's blind dates and end up breaking up. When you think about it, most parents are willing to accompany their children to blind dates. They like you or not, and you can basically tell if you like them at once. As long as they are satisfied, then your obstacles will be reduced.
The third benefit: saving time. It is said that nowadays, professional men and women are too busy to talk to each other for their careers. As long as you choose a blind date, you don't have to aimlessly search in the vast sea of people, because people with the same intention as you will "automatically" bring them to your door. What kind of encounters, friends, couples... These plots can all be skipped. If you are satisfied, you can directly rush to the marriage stage, According to the fact that it takes an average person three, four, five, or six years to reach their destination, you are on your way to heaven! Unhappy? If you don't hit the mark on a blind date, you can still make an invincible series. Look at the huge matchmaking team, there must be someone suitable for you! Save time and effort, I believe even Martians would agree that blind dates are the most efficient and greatest activity on Earth!!!!
The fourth benefit: financially secure, at least 98% of blind dates will be prepared with the money they need to get married. As for the remaining 2%? Let's ignore them! You don't have to calculate money from left to right before getting married, you can be a beautiful bride with peace of mind! Don't worry about economic issues, that's great!
The fifth advantage: Quality assurance. Don't think that people who go on blind dates are just "leftovers". This concept is too outdated. I dare say that most men who go on blind dates nowadays are successful individuals who do not have leisure time to fall in love. They are mostly successful in their careers, possess both psychological and physical qualities, and have little love experience, some of whom are "pure". Therefore, they want to find a good man, Join the blind date team! Go without regret!
Sixth advantage: Safety. Most blind dates are introduced by people around you, and most of them are trustworthy people. They are either your blind date or your other relatives or good friends. As long as they are thinking about your happiness, they will strictly choose for you first, such as having a clear understanding of the blind date's family background, educational background, character, work unit, monthly income, and any bad habits, just like an emperor selecting a concubine, When you go on a blind date, there will definitely be one or two "think tanks" around you to help provide advice. With these levels and strict monitoring throughout the entire process, it can be said that the probability of being deceived is greatly reduced!
In fact, in order to achieve a successful blind date, the main thing is to strive to improve one's own literacy, work hard, and improve one's own conditions. Of course, blind dates should also leave a good impression on the other party, otherwise even if you are excellent, the other party will not be interested in further socializing with you.