Post Date April, 15 2023
When young men and girls enter puberty, their bodies gradually mature, and they must be curious about sex, but they are young people after all, and their sexual psychology is not mature enough. At this time, what if adolescent sexual intercourse is frequent? Let me tell you what to do with frequent sexual intercourse in adolescence.
What about frequent sexual intercourse in adolescence?
The pace of sex education is too slow
The survey results also showed that with the increase of grade, the proportion of sexual knowledge from books, magazines and media of senior high school students increased gradually, 53.77% in senior one, 61.64% in senior two and 66.25% in senior three, while the proportion of sexual knowledge from schools and teachers declined with the increase of grade. According to expert analysis, this shows that the self-consciousness, independence and self-learning ability of high school students are increasing, but it also reflects that with the aggravation of learning tasks, the school has slowed down in sex education.
According to the survey, 67.29% of the students said it was difficult to ask their parents about sex. Of the students who have boldly asked their parents questions, 24.84% of their parents can answer them frankly, but 7.87% of their parents are still shy to explain. Experts believe that the main reason has to be found in parents. Some parents even think that sex education is not their own business and are accustomed to throwing this "ball" to schools and society.
Adolescent curiosity about sex
Adolescent children are in the period of sexual germination. The knowledge of sex they have just come into contact with and their bodies are also gradually developing. Their curiosity and thirst for sexual knowledge lead to more and more frequent sexual intercourse. Children in this period are easily rebellious, and parents should give correct sexual guidance.
With the development of sexual physiology, teenagers' sexual psychology is also developing. Facing the growing sexual interest and desire, how to establish their own "psychological gender", how to adapt to the requirements of social culture and control and deal with sexual psychology, these are the problems that teenagers must face.
The maturity of sexual physiology is the main cause of adolescent sexual psychological problems. Therefore, adolescent sexual psychological health care must be based on the scientific understanding of sexual physiology, and the correct understanding of sexual physiology depends on the correct understanding of human anatomical organs and physiological reality.
How to do adolescent sex education well
In adolescence education, teenagers should be guided to learn physiological and health knowledge and understand scientific knowledge of sexual physiology in order to eliminate the mystery of sex. These knowledge includes four parts: ① the development process of sexual physiology and the structure of sexual organs, such as the generation of female menstruation, the anatomical structure of sexual reproductive organs, etc.; ② The development and performance of sexual psychology, such as masturbation, male and female communication, etc.; ③ General knowledge of sexual health, such as the harm of sexually transmitted diseases and the treatment of menstruation; ④ Social norms, such as family planning, sexual morality, etc.
Rational abstinence is good for physical and mental health
If teenagers do not understand the sexual impulse, sexual desire and sexual consciousness in adolescence, they may have psychological conflict and stress, and produce tension, fear, shyness and guilt, which may lead to depression and even suicide. Some teenagers have early love, prematurely sexual behavior, and sexual misbehavior due to improper education and the influence of bad family or social environment. Teenagers should improve their sexual awareness during their growth and development.
As advocated by the internationally renowned gender brand Lelo, perfect sex can make the body and mind healthier, while adolescent men and women are not mature enough in sexual physiology and psychology to complete healthy sex, so they need rational abstinence. Learn gender identity, determine and improve your gender identity, understand the direction of your sexual physiology and psychological development, make it develop towards a healthy and normal mature goal, cultivate sexual morality and sexual adaptability, be good at getting along with the opposite sex, learn to communicate with the opposite sex in a friendly way, and understand the significance of sexual relationships.
What are the dangers of adolescent sex?
Hazards to girls
1. Premature sex can cause genital duct damage and infection.
Due to the immature development of the reproductive duct of adolescent girls, the vulva and vagina are very delicate, and the short surface tissue of the vagina is weak. During sexual intercourse, it can cause serious tear of the hymen and vaginal laceration and massive bleeding. At the same time, it can also bring some pathogenic microorganisms or dirt into the vagina to varying degrees, and women's own defense function is poor at this stage, which is easy to cause infection of the urethra, vulva and vagina. If the control is not timely, the infection will spread.
2. Early sex can affect study and work.
Adolescent girls are in the golden age of learning, working and accumulating knowledge to lay the foundation for their brilliant future. If they have sex, it will inevitably affect the energy of learning and working, and will be harmful to themselves, family and society. Therefore, they should avoid sex in adolescence. Adolescent women should cherish their youth and body very much, and should devote their attention and interest to learning and working, which is beneficial to their healthy growth Career achievements and life happiness are of great significance.
3. Premature sex can seriously affect mental health.
Because girls' sexual behavior is often carried out secretly under a very tense state, and they lack the necessary preparation (mainly refers to the study of sexual knowledge and ideological preparation). At the same time, during and after sex life, fear of pregnancy, fear of exposure and feelings of fear, guilt and regret will be generated. Over time, people will also have psychological abnormalities, such as: hate men, hate sex life, decreased libido, decreased sexual sensitivity and frigidity.
4. Premature sexual life can bring adverse consequences due to pregnancy.
Because women's ovaries begin to ovulate after menstruation, if effective contraceptive measures are not taken during sexual intercourse, pregnancy is very likely to occur. Once pregnant, artificial abortion must be done, and artificial abortion is not only harmful to women's health, but also can cause a series of complications, such as infection, bleeding, uterine perforation, post-marital habitual abortion and infertility, and because of the pressure of public opinion, self-blame and guilt around, It will cause serious psychological trauma to women and even affect their normal sexual life after marriage.
Hazards to boys
1. Damage to reproductive organs.
Teenagers are not mature, and their reproductive organs are also in the stage of growth and development. Local skin and mucous membrane are delicate and vulnerable to injury. We often answer the call for help from boys who complain of frequent urination, painful urination, urgent urination and other symptoms. After careful inquiry, we found that they have frequently had sexual behavior in the past one or two days.
2. I'm worried about my girlfriend's pregnancy.
The sexual partners of young men are generally girls of the same age. There is such a boy who worries about the girl's pregnancy all day long after having sex. While waiting for the girl's next menstrual cycle, he buys a pregnancy test paper to test urine every day, and calls a consultation phone every day to ask about the significance of the test results. For example, how does the test paper show a bar? Is one clear and one vague pregnancy? Menstruation is two days overdue, and it is still a bar. Why on earth. In short, I am worried every day when I wait for my girlfriend's next menstrual cycle. The boy said that when he took the pregnancy test paper, his hands kept shaking for fear of a positive result.
3. Academic performance declined.
After having sex with his girlfriend, he felt very excited and curious about this matter, and often yearned for it. His mind was full of the situation with his girlfriend. He didn't want to study and was always distracted in class. He only looked forward to seeing his girlfriend after class, and his academic performance declined all the way.
4. The relationship between classmates is tense.
The interpersonal relationship in the middle school stage is often of a group nature. Generally, three or five or even seven or eight students often come together to talk and exchange learning experience or experience. However, after having an intimate relationship with a certain opposite sex, it is easy for two people to stick together frequently, which reduces the chance to contact more students and alienates them. A boy became jealous because another boy said more words to his girlfriend. He broke the boy's glasses on an excuse, and the two good friends turned against each other.
