1 Keyword: Upgrading the relationship with girls
Q: Hello crow!! I like a girl who asked her out to play a few days ago. I pretended to accidentally hold her hand, but she didn't resist. Later, I told her that I liked her and wanted to be my girlfriend, but she said she didn't know... And then the relationship remains the same as before without any difference. May I ask if the crow is big enough? She said she doesn't know what it means. Is it possible for our relationship to escalate???
Answer: You suddenly said you liked her and became her girlfriend, which was too unexpected, brother. Even if a girl has feelings for you, she will not directly agree. Firstly, in your relationship, if a girl is willing to prove that she likes you, she should conduct more compliance tests during this process to see how well she likes you. And you need to bully her more and give her a nickname (Little Stupid Girl) to elevate your relationship and move in an ambiguous direction.
2 keywords: finding common topics with girls
Q: # Crow Love Question # Teacher, I am a college student and the girl I like is from another department. During a computer class together, I went over to ask for her QQ and chatted well. However, sometimes she replied slowly or didn't reply. In the previous chat, I also expressed my desire to pursue something, but I don't know how to upgrade my relationship and couldn't find a topic to chat with. What should I do?
Answer: Exposed? Do you mean I like you or do you have pretty eyes? There is a big difference, one is that I want to be with you directly, and the other is to express your true thoughts. And what you need to do now is to freeze your own, reduce your sense of need, and go find her for a week to also do life building. You can showcase your life in various ways, such as when meeting her or using WeChat Moments. Women are generally hesitant to ask you too much privacy, so they will judge your value based on the information you display. After completing your presentation, you can judge her compliance level through continuous compliance testing, gradually increase the temptation, create ambiguity, and make her like you. For example, dating her is a simple compliance test, and if you can make an appointment, there are many things you can do.
3 keywords: How to invite a girl out
Hello, Raven God. I have known a girl for a few months, but I haven't had close contact with her. She often comes to my store and recently added me to WeChat on the grounds of sending red envelopes for consumption. During this time, I talked to her intermittently several times and felt that she had never contacted me before. She only sent me messages when she came to my store to consume. Recently, she came to my store to consume and we chatted very well. We had physical contact and held hands, Touching her head, she didn't resist, and I didn't receive any money from her. So I asked her to invite me to eat to offset her expenses. She said she didn't want to pay so much for the meal, and she wanted to send me a WeChat transfer. She also said she didn't have time to forget, and I asked for me tomorrow. Then she said she didn't have time. I said I would wait for you to invite me to eat sometimes, and I would take her back to the dormitory in the evening. She sent me a message saying thank you when she arrived, but the next day I didn't receive her transfer, I thought she would send me a message to invite me to dinner, but after two days, I didn't see her send me a message, and I didn't contact her. I thought she didn't have time, but at 11 o'clock last night, I suddenly transferred money and said I forgot and would come to my store tomorrow. Oh, I thought I couldn't make an appointment again this time. How could the Raven God teach me.
Answer: The simple way is to remain calm, rather than rushing to expose your high needs, and see if she will continue to maintain the same enthusiasm. If you are getting along face-to-face, you can do some simple compliance tests.
Example of compliance testing:
1. Social level testing
You ask her to help pass a glass of water;
You need to leave your position for a moment and have her take care of your things for you.
2. Testing for improved comfort
You helped her tidy her hair, but she didn't retract her head;
Your body is very close to her, but she hasn't dodged.
3. Intimacy stage testing
You held her hand and she didn't dodge;
When you touch her body or hug her, she doesn't feel uncomfortable or resistant;
If you kiss her face and she accepts, then you can try kissing her mouth.
If her obedience is low, then you don't have to rush to give, just maintain the current heat, and you don't have to worry. Take a break from the rhythm and find a chance to try again.
Chasing a girl definitely requires a man to take a proactive step, but you need to grasp the rhythm and not be too jumpy. If you put in too much at once, you will lose control of your emotions. The more you put in, the more afraid you are of losing, and it is easy to worry about gains and losses. Your anxious and anxious emotions will make you appear untrustworthy and reduce your attractiveness. The girl's impression of you will also decrease, affecting the development of your relationship.
4 keywords; I want to pursue my sister, but I don't have confidence
Q: The crow is big, and I feel that when I see the girl I like now, I don't dare to look straight at it. I was originally in sales, with a good image and height, a good income, and a relatively outgoing personality. However, I haven't talked about a girlfriend for more than 6 years since graduating from junior high school. A few girls have confessed to me before and they didn't like it anymore. Then, I confessed to the girl I like and was rejected, but I always feel like my sister is treating me as a good spare tire. Hey, I feel like I have no confidence in love at all. I am a person with strong learning ability, and I think your method is very correct, but I always feel like I can't get in. I want to pursue the girl I like, but I have no confidence. What should I do! Could you please give me some guidance
Answer: Learning to think and summarize when facing difficulties is a very good thing. First of all, you must understand the correct love framework of "attraction", "security", and "temptation". This is a basic process. When facing a girl, it is important to establish attraction, rather than just pleasing her, giving her gifts, or even confessing. This way, only the good guy card can give you, because there are too many boys around who do this without any novelty, and you are not familiar with each other at the beginning. Why should you accept your confession? So, about how to establish attraction, you can take a detailed look at the first four moves of combo: self guidance, disguised leadership, personality screening, and favorable description. These are the components of combo attraction, go and take a look.
Don't lose confidence in love, it's all about constantly failing and summarizing, and finally making yourself better and better. Dare to try, come on, young man.