Post Date September, 22 2023
Last night, Yang Yang and I sat on the sofa watching TV. The male and female protagonists stood in front of the car, first gazing at each other with affection, and then hugging deeply. When their lips were facing each other, Yang Yang jumped off the sofa and hid in my arms. He smiled at me and put his face close to mine. At that time, I saw that Yang Yang didn't care about me and continued to approach my mouth. I reacted and asked Yang Yang what to do? Yang Yang said, 'I am a TV learner, my mother's mouth.'. Upon hearing that the problem was a bit serious, he pretended to calm down and began to distract Yang Yang's attention. Yang Yang said, "Mom, why did TV Uncle kiss my aunt's mouth? Mom said, 'You can only kiss the face, there are bacteria in your mouth, right?' I had to answer, "Yes, there are bacteria in your mouth, but adults have resistance. When you grow up to your uncle's age, you can kiss your wife's mouth." To be honest, I was a bit surprised by my own answer.
Kissing can also face it directly
When my son was over 2 years old, one day my family and I watched an American movie, and there was a scene where the male and female protagonists kissed. The scene lasted for a long time, and my son was playing next to him. Suddenly, he pointed to the scene and said, "Mom, what are they doing? I can't answer my son's question at all. At that time, the father sitting next to me said, 'Let you kiss me!'! My son seems to have heard it. Because he loves listening to the song "Sister Sitting in the Bow of a Boat" sung by Wen Hua and Yin Xiangjie the most, there is a saying in the lyrics that he remembers kissing you. My father's calm attitude and witty answers made me start to think. What attitude should I adopt towards my child when there are descriptions of love and sex in the media? When I saw some friends kissing and hugging men and women on TV, I changed the stage and didn't let them watch. Afterwards, when the child saw such a scene, they shouted loudly that the young man was not suitable, covered their eyes with their hands, and looked out through their fingers. As a result, the parents lost the opportunity to talk to the child about sex and taught them to lie. I don't want to do this, so I have always adopted an open policy towards my son, and we appreciate it together. Every time there are pictures depicting the passion of men and women, I actively communicate with them. When adult men and women develop love, they need to use physical contact to express this emotion. For example, kissing, hugging, etc., they will feel happy. My son naturally communicates with me. When such scenes appear on TV, I pay attention to his reaction and he appears very calm.
