Sexual Health
How to Cultivate Values in Adolescent Teenagers How to Distinguish Sex and Love during Adolescence
Post Date September, 03 2023
How to educate adolescent children is a concern for many parents. How to treat adolescent children, how to interact with them, and how to teach correct values, let's take a look.
How to cultivate the values of adolescent adolescents
1. Starting from Life to Change
Adolescent children experience rapid physiological changes and various psychological reactions, most of which are manifestations of self-awareness awakening. It is normal for them to try to break through constraints and discipline, and making mistakes is also the price of growth.
Regarding adolescent children, parents should pay attention to independent children in daily life, fully tap into their children's self-reliance ability, and develop the habit of handling their own daily chores. Otherwise, things will replace work and instead conflict with one's own awakening of consciousness. Secondly, there is a transition from authoritative influence to objective analysis and guidance. Due to the rapid development of society, parents often appear unprofessional when they speak up, gradually losing their authority. In order to avoid directive education, children only need objective analysis and guidance from their parents after encountering difficulties, problems, and setbacks, and this analysis and guidance should be friend like.
Once again, patiently work with children to do things they enjoy, approach them, discover strengths, encourage them, learn weaknesses, create opportunities for them to surpass their guardians, praise their good deeds (not limited to learning), and further guide their learning. Not only should we pay attention to learning, but we also need to pay attention to many parents who have put in a lot of effort, raised their demands on their children, and experienced persistent and serious dissatisfaction, which affects all communication with their children.
2. Make children take responsibility
Adolescent children have the ability to self identify things. If parents do not pay attention to their children's changes, just like before, taking their children along their own designed path will naturally cause dissatisfaction and intentionally work with them. To get along well with children, parents must have a correct understanding of their children and hold them accountable.
When children are young, their cognitive ability to things is not strong, and they need the attention and help of their parents. As children gradually grow up, parents become accustomed to their children's dependence on themselves and neglect their children's growth. They still start drawing feet on their children, which naturally makes them bored. Therefore, parents should teach their children to take responsibility, especially during adolescence.
