How to Control Libido in Adolescence Several Restraint Methods to Control Adolescent Libido

In adolescence, many boys and girls begin to have Libido. Sometimes, when they get along with the opposite sex, they will have an impulse that they have never had before, which makes them very surprised. In fact, it is very normal to have sexual impulse in adolescence, but we must deal with this matter well. So, what about Libido in adolescence?

How to deal with Libido in adolescence?

When young men and women turn from friends into lovers, especially after entering the seductive, exciting, sweet, and happy stage of passionate love, they often forget everything around them, as if everything around them has disappeared, and only the fervor of love and emotional intoxication exist. Young men are prone to Libido when they are close to and dependent on their beloved girl, and they are in love with each other.

Libido is an internal force that tends to the opposite sex and is a normal sexual psychological phenomenon. After entering puberty, men continuously secrete sex hormones and undergo mutations in various physiological functions, leading to rapid development and maturation of the reproductive organs and their functions.

During the period of passionate love, psychological activities related to sex, such as emotions, memory, and imagination, are abnormally active. The girl's bright eyes and white teeth, slim figure and fragrant smell, in short, all the stimuli that the girl brings to the boy's vision, taste, hearing, touch and smell are important factors that cause his Libido.

If emotions are compared to oars, then reason is the rudder. Only with the tacit cooperation of the two can the ship of love reach the other shore of happiness. The young man before marriage may have encountered the test of this "driving" ability.

The waves caused by Libido will make the young man confused and helpless, even overturn and stranded the "ship". Only a strong willed young man can calm the waves and sail far.

Premarital sex is a deviant behavior that is contrary to social morality in the stage of love, and it is very harmful to the development of love.

First, Premarital sex is illegal. In our country, sexual activity is a legal right for couples and an important part of their daily life. It must be protected by law and cannot occur casually between any man or woman.

Second, Premarital sex is easy to cause frustration. There are two possibilities for a romantic relationship, either having a lover and eventually getting married, or having no chance to part ways. If a sexual relationship occurs, once one party likes the new and dislikes the old, seeks a new partner, or breaks up due to other reasons, it will cause serious setbacks and setbacks to the other party. For young women, it will bring greater pain.