How to conduct self-examination by reviewing the 7 misconceptions that men cannot be tough

Erectile dysfunction or male erectile dysfunction is a more accurate name for erectile dysfunction. Its main manifestation is the persistent or repetitive difficulty in erecting the penis in males, which makes it difficult for the penis to fully erect and complete sexual activities between males and females. Actually, this definition needs to be clarified

One of them is that this sexual stimulation must come from sufficient stimulation from the spouse

Secondly, it is necessary to truly determine whether sexual intercourse can be completed

Thirdly, after marriage, the couple needs at least 2. 3 months of familiarity and practical experience in sexual life, re evaluation

Fourthly, any extramarital behavior will bias judgment.

Deviating from these principles can easily lead to self judgment errors, such as wearing the hat of impotence, mental constraints, and low emotions.

People are prone to misunderstandings when self judging content:

1. Multiple sexual failures in the early stages of marriage are considered content.

This situation is very common, in fact, it violates the principle that spouses need a 2-3 month training period after starting sexual activity. At the beginning of the wedding, especially on the night of the wedding, there is excessive excitement, fatigue, and even insufficient cooperation between the couple during the drunken wedding stage, resulting in temporary poor erectile function. Originally, this was not surprising. There are also some newlyweds who have poor sexual performance due to stealing forbidden fruits before marriage. At that time, they were experiencing complex emotions such as exploration, experimentation, nervousness, and fear, resulting in a high failure rate. As a result, they left a shadow of their poor sexual ability in their minds. This situation should have a stage of adjustment in post marital sexual intercourse.

2. Treat the inability to induce orgasm and pleasure in the female partner as impotence.

This is a bigger mistake. As long as a man's penis is erect and placed in person, he can successfully ejaculate and achieve orgasm through sexual intercourse, which is not impotence or sexual pleasure. One of the functional characteristics of male and female sexuality is that men are faster and women are slower. If a man ejaculates, it is a physiological phenomenon that women have not yet entered orgasm. There are many problems with disharmony in sexual life, and it cannot be considered impotence.

3. Believing that masturbation will inevitably lead to impotence.

It is a common misconception among unmarried youth. Of course, masturbation is a common behavior among teenagers, and some people are concerned that masturbation may cause content, and some people are actually content afterwards. But modern medicine has already clarified that the occurrence of such impotence is not fundamentally due to masturbation damaging the sexual organs, but rather long-term masturbation leading to psychological and psychological factors causing trouble. In fact, the psychological activities of masturbators are very complex, often in the midst of anxiety, guilt, depression, and anxiety. This unhealthy thinking activity can hinder the normal functioning of sexual function. However, even long-term masturbators may not necessarily experience erectile dysfunction as long as they can relieve the aforementioned mental swelling.

4. Erectile dysfunction is a condition where the response to penile erection is not obvious.

Many teenagers complain that they have seen photos of erotic movies and books before, and want to enter a girl they don't like, or in some fantasy, their penis naturally erects, but now this reaction is not obvious. Isn't it impotence? Wrong! The answer is very simple, because the spouse does not have complete sexual stimulation, including visual, auditory, tactile, olfactory and other aspects of sexual stimulation, there is no real sexual intercourse practice, only penile erection, cannot diagnose impotence. In fact, male penis erection is physiologically divided into two situations: one is reactive erection, which does not need any sexual stimulation, and spontaneously erects through nerve reflex, such as erection after sleep at night, and the other is mental erection, which needs some sexual stimulation to induce, including the brain sexual fantasy without sound. Therefore, all eroticism can trigger a mental erection. The regular pattern of mental erection that occurs in daily life is complex, and with changes in one's physical constitution, thoughts, emotions, etc., sometimes it is good, but there is a time difference, which is not an indicator for judging the content.

5. Insufficient erection after sexual intercourse is considered impotence.

Strictly speaking, this viewpoint is also incorrect. Some people have normal sexual activity with their wives and have good erectile function; But in extramarital love, sexual intercourse never recovered. On the contrary, some people who have sex with their wives may experience poor erection due to lack of novelty, but they excel in extramarital intercourse. These are all situations that occur after the sexual intercourse partner changes. At first glance, if an erection is not good during sexual intercourse with a certain partner, it is indeed an impotence. In medicine, there are also terms for "extramarital impotence" and "marital impotence". However, in a true sense, people with this selective impotence are not truly impotent patients. From one perspective, he has developed erectile dysfunction, while from another perspective, his sexual function is good. From this, it can be seen that such people cannot be casually labeled as impotent. Of course, it is crucial to correct one's style, adjust one's mindset, and ensure normal sexual activity within marriage.

6. Frequent ejaculation inevitably leads to impotence.

This is a common fallacy among teenagers. Do they believe that frequent ejaculation can harm the mind and result in loss of function? In fact, this concern is completely redundant. Healthy unmarried men have normal ejaculation 1-2 times a month, with an increase of 4-5 times or more, which is related to inflammation of the reproductive and urinary organs and lifestyle factors, such as wearing tight clothing, local overheating during nighttime sleep, and excessive fatigue during the day. However, modern medicine has made it clear that there is no necessary connection between ejaculation and impotence.

7. Premature ejaculation will inevitably evolve into impotence later on.

Those who hold this viewpoint can provide specific examples. These patients begin premature ejaculation, ejaculate without or just after contact with a woman, and their erectile function is also impaired. From a medical perspective, such situations are often caused by psychological factors. Because of premature ejaculation, I am dissatisfied and feel guilty towards my wife. Some wives show dissatisfaction, ridicule, and complain, which brings great pressure to their husbands. Sexual function can truly collapse under this complex psychological state and mental pressure. If effective treatment is given during the stage of premature ejaculation, with a strong will and attitude, or if the wife does not mind, content will not occur. Modern medicine has not found a necessary connection between premature ejaculation and impotence. In short, through detailed examination of the condition and strict examination, the diagnosis of impotence can be clarified. Any subjective guess or speculation is not scientific.

What is the true cause of impotence?

The causes of erectile dysfunction are relatively complex. In the 1960s and 1970s, psychological factors were widely believed to be the main factor. In recent years, with the application of advanced detection equipment, more than 80% of organic lesions have been found, some of which are combined with psychological factors. Modern sex medicine generally divides erectile dysfunction into psychological (also known as psychological or functional), vascular, neurological, endocrine, and drug-induced erectile dysfunction.

Organic lesions are often accompanied by functional changes in the tissues or organs involved, such as liver cirrhosis often accompanied by liver dysfunction. However, there are some organic structural lesions that have no obvious functional impairment due to various reasons (such as early stage, body compensation, etc.), such as hemangiomas, skin lipomas, etc.

How to do self check for impotence?

How to conduct content self-examination has always been a concern for content patients. According to male experts, nighttime penile erection has always been a commonly used test method in erectile dysfunction testing, and is the best method to distinguish functional and organic erectile dysfunction. Secondly, compare several nighttime examination methods for erectile dysfunction.

(1) The night erection tester is usually composed of a probe, a host, and a recorder, which can record the entire process of changes in the length and diameter of the penis overnight. The number of erections, duration, length, diameter of each erection, and time interval between adjacent erections can be obtained from the recorded curve.

(2) The stamp experiment uses an unopened linked stamp that is glued around the overlapping area of the penis before going to bed. If there is a tear at the ticket hole when waking up in the morning, it indicates that there has been an effective erection at night. If the adhesive detaches along the overlapping area, it is meaningless. This method is convenient, simple, and primitive, but it cannot estimate the degree of erection and the number of nighttime erections.

(3) The three colored plastic strips of the penis test ring are arranged parallel on the button, and the three strips rupture under tension of 2, 94 (blue), 4, 41 (red), 5, and 88 (white) KN, respectively. After a good night's sleep, if there is no break, it indicates an ineffective erection at night. If the first (blue) break, the hardness is the smallest, indicating that sexual intercourse is possible, but insertion is difficult. The second (red) also breaks, indicating that sufficient hardness can be inserted. The last (white) also breaks, indicating good hardness

(4) Rigiscan hardness tester is an instrument that can measure both the nighttime swelling of the penis and its hardness, consisting of a storage section and a small electronic computer. Before the examination, it is necessary to avoid napping, drinking alcohol, and taking medication (except for mandatory medications) to reduce factors that affect sleep, and generally measure three times continuously. This method can quantify the time and hardness of penile erection.

(5) The circumference measurement ruler of the penis is connected to a square button with one end of a ribbon tape. Before going to bed, use tape to fix the button on the penis. The button can be stretched and moved around the button without resistance, and then read the base number by looking at the scale. The next morning, observe the scale and take another reading base. The two differences are the increase in circumference during nighttime erection. The range of increase in normal people is 1, 5, 4, and 1 centimeter, Patients with erectile dysfunction have an increased value of over 1 to 5 centimeters, indicating functional erectile dysfunction

The above methods are relatively scientific to a certain extent. However, does the correct diagnosis of impotence require authoritative diagnosis in a specialized hospital.