How to carry out targeted sex education for children? When conducting sex education for children, there are three things to pay attention to

Many parents are shy about sex and always avoid speaking. Common reports of sexual assault on children. Therefore, parents' sex education for their children is crucial and it is necessary to strengthen their correct guidance for their children.

There are tricks to sex education, such as not going alone to places that cannot be helped, not staying alone in remote places, obtaining parental consent for outdoor activities, avoiding going out alone at night as much as possible, not trusting strangers easily, and not going out with strangers... These are the basic contents of family safety education, but family sex education must involve gender and privacy

1. Sex education starts at the age of 2

Dr. Guo Jia from the Children's Psychology Clinic of Sun Yat sen Memorial Hospital at Sun Yat sen University stated that in daily life, parents must help children establish gender awareness and let them know that men and women are different.

Huang Jialiang, the highest leader of Zhonghui Education Consulting Center, said that sex education starts at the age of 2. When parents and children take a shower together, they teach children the best time to distinguish between men and women and protect themselves. For example, these organs belong to girls, while those organs belong to boys and cannot be touched by others or private parts. I usually suggest parents tell girls that you have a little sister who is very fragile and needs your protection.

2. Let children know about their bodies

Parents must help their children understand their bodies. Some parents may find it awkward and ambiguous. In fact, this important part not only needs to have a correct understanding of the child, but also tells parents that no one can see or touch them during bathing and doctor examination. Guo Jia said.

If it is related to secret parts of the body, the words of adults and teachers are not correct, and the teacher's requirements are not completely necessary to listen. Huang Jialiang noticed.

3. Tell children what inappropriate contact is

Guardians should discuss the differences in different types of contact with their children, so that they can clarify what is good contact, what is inappropriate contact, and what is harmful contact

Good touch is something that children like, such as parents' embrace, friends' hand in hand inappropriate touch is something that children want to stop touching, such as hitting, patting, kicking, touching the child's privacy department, whether the child's privacy department is good or bad, making children feel confused and uncomfortable. Educate children to quickly leave and run to crowded places when encountering uncomfortable touches.