How to arouse a partner's interest in sexual activity? Doing this before sex has a miraculous effect

Pleasant and captivating words are tools for love and channels for exchanging sexual experiences. But some people are confused: "Why does a lover keep silent during passionate sexual activity?" This even becomes the reason for their sexual dissatisfaction. Recently, American sexologist Kerry Schweinberg pointed out in an article published on the famous sexology website "About" that there is no direct connection between silence and dissatisfaction during sexual intercourse. Just like eating, some people like to smack their mouths and have rich expressions, while others are accustomed to enjoying it quietly

A survey of 1171 people conducted by the "About" website found that the reasons for sexual noise vary. 18% of respondents responded to their partner; 26% of people are trying to pique their partner's sexual interest; 36% is because they feel good; 8% of people are 'indifferent'; 9% of people do not make any sound.

But if your partner's' silence 'makes you feel uncomfortable or affects your sexual experience, it's necessary to speak up. On the one hand, it should be emphasized that one does not want to demonstrate sexual skills, but rather hopes to have wonderful feelings with the other party. On the other hand, there are several ways to help your partner 'break the silence'.

Firstly, if silence is only due to shyness, you can try to consciously breathe, gradually adding a little "small noise" while breathing. As sex progresses, the shyness will gradually overcome. Secondly, try saying some "dirty words", such as using nicknames to refer to sexual organs.

After entering the state, it is not difficult to make a sound again. Finally, before having sex, you can listen to some music that both of you enjoy and hum loudly to stimulate your emotions. The most important thing is that the two should relax both physically and mentally, and the volume should be moderate, "said Kerry Schweinberg.