How to Answer Children's Sexual Issues: Don't Just Instil Shame in Children's Sexual Education

No matter when and where, parents should not increase their children's psychological burden with their inappropriate attitude towards their children's sexual problems. We should not always want to give all the knowledge to children in education, and there is no need to lecture mothers like doctors do.

Answer children's sexual questions concisely and do not speak. Sometimes, it is not to help children fully grasp relevant knowledge and knowledge, but to correct their sexual psychological problems and not form incorrect sexual concepts and attitudes.

When a child reaches a certain age and raises questions in this regard, parents formally begin using language to provide sex education to their child. A boy of two or three years old naively asked his parents, pointing to his genitals, 'What is this?'? The correct attitude of parents should naturally say, 'This is your chick.'.

The attitude of parents should be as natural as telling their children where the ears are and where the eyes are. Therefore, a mysterious and surprised tone and expression can bring a difficult to solve mystery and an abnormal sense of shame to children's psychology. When a child asks such a question, he doesn't want to know the sexual function of the genitalia, but he only wants to know the correct name.

Some parents often make excuses when answering their children's questions about the source of life, saying, 'You picked it up and grew it on a tree... An incorrect answer may not necessarily make the child truly believe it.'. The problem is that the child feels that their parents don't want them to know where I come from, which is a mysterious issue. By the time a child reaches the age of seven or eight, they already have a vague understanding of certain information, and although they may have a lot of confusion, they will not openly ask their parents. Because he once touched it at his parents' place. Parents have also lost the opportunity to provide sex education to their children and help them overcome the psychological period of sexual arousal and confusion.

Answering children's sexual questions should follow the most basic principles: a calm, honest, and natural attitude is important. Since the child is still immature, the answer can be simpler. The key is not to cause Psychological stress to children, so as not to lead to abnormal sexual mystery and abnormal shame.

Children's sex education not only instills a sense of shame

Medical research shows that male infants aged 0~1.5 years also have penis erection, and female infants also have Vaginal discharge. At this time, infants belong to the Oral stage period, attracting pleasure, which is advocated by experts.