Rui Hao, 34, is a case of premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction. They are often credulous of many false diagnosis and treatment information, and indirectly immediately believe that there are many problems in their own body. Therefore, they have cultivated the problem of taking medicine as soon as they suffer from a minor illness since childhood. Basically, they are taking medicine 300 days out of 365 days a year.
Since childhood, the concept of family has been very traditional, and personality is also very introverted. He has never had a girlfriend, and all sex is based on imagination. However, the incorrect sex enlightenment education and news information make him trapped in the idea that "sex" is invisible and dirty. He is afraid of masturbating and venting personal behavior, and often dreams.
Do not know why? It is really difficult for Ruihao to correctly recognize "feel"!
The general "sense concentration" is difficult for him to achieve, because I found that he was often cut off and distracted by the pain or itching of the body when carrying out training, as if strongly protesting the work pressure of honestly carrying out "experience" for him.
Therefore, I intend to use the correct and regular inspiration as the opening words of the training before entering the training. It is better to have a good conversation with my own body than the training on the reproductive organs.
"I only feel resentful and angry about my male genitals," said Rui Hao.
"Then how do you think about these mentality?" I asked slowly
"The mud can't stand on the wall. It's not that it can't stand or endure. All the problems are caused by it." Rui Hao seems to push all the wrong things to the poor penis, and conceive of a person who only "hates" his own sexual organs. How can he love it and communicate with it?
Therefore, in the whole process of training, I did not choose the physical massage training method of my conceptualized classroom teaching. Instead, I asked Rui Hao to follow my command and imagine how to develop the most commodity emotion to gently touch the baby.
"That has all practical significance? I don't think so!" Rui Hao said in doubt.
"It's not easy to have it, because you don't put the feeling of cherishing into it, how can you feel it?" I continued to carry out correct guidance gradually.
Rui Hao seemed to understand what I said gradually, and wanted to look at it in a different way than in the past. Gradually, he finally got to the first step of physical massage training.
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The content of the course is carried out according to the progress, and the development status is also being estimated, gradually approaching the prologue.
Justification When I felt that the repair of this case was under control, I was just beginning to realize that Rui Hao had transferred the dependency to me, and there was a lack of cooperation. It seemed that I didn't want to finish the course. I looked forward to coming to the management center to help me with the training.
When I came back, I was lazy at the beginning of the course and kept telling me a lot of problems that occurred in the first class or that I had dealt with before. Therefore, I actively discussed with Rui Hao about the future planning, so that he could master the bridge that only helped him get out of trouble in his life. The day of goodbye will surely come.
I thought it would take some time for Rui Hao to integrate, but I didn't expect that when he came to class this time, he and I shared his turning point in the whole process of training, including that I didn't abandon him, and that I could clearly put forward many problems to make him think about these.
Therefore, he decided to lead his own life path, and did not want to be detained. He was trapped by drugs, sexual knowledge points, and anyone's language. Finally, he decided to discard the medicine bag and satchel he often carried, and did a great job of sorting out his life path.
Rui Hao is a case that must be encouraged and tolerated very much. Because of the worry about symptoms, the long-term worry about human suffering is beyond the required level, and many hobbies and concerns outside the human body are taken away.
Before the completion of the course content, he showed that through the physical and mental baptism of the six classes of sexual life, not only did the male sexual function become stronger or the working ability of prolonging the ejaculation time become better, but also gradually realized that the shaping of the control ability in life is also very good. He showed that he had been able to suddenly rise up to deal with the turning point and get rid of the big hurdles that other things in life would come and should come.