How much pain does a woman experience for the first time? The first pain is the cause of hymen rupture

Before making love, almost all men and women have heard that a woman's first night is very painful, which gives her psychological hints and fear. In fact, many people don't know how painful a woman's first night can be. They are just listening to rumors from others. Today, the editor will introduce this issue to everyone.

Before introducing this question, let's first say an interesting phenomenon about women to help you understand this problem: we generally accept that the first night, that is, many people know that hymen is a membrane, which is easy to break during strenuous exercise, and many things happen unconsciously. In other words, it has been proven that membrane rupture does not cause pain, at least it does not cause obvious pain, otherwise how can women not know? But why don't people accept the idea of bleeding on the first night, but not hymen rupture?

As for the above issues, the reason is actually very simple. Under the influence of media propaganda such as the first painful experience and movies, people closely associate the pain of the first night with the innocence of the girl, to the extent that they have an association in people's minds: the first sexual life means distortion, and pain is something that women must overcome at this ceremony. Women are destined to suffer losses, so women should at least be careful of their first night and fear pain! I paid for nothing!

Under the influence of this public opinion, who would think that a woman's first night doesn't hurt? No, what's even more exaggerated is that people also believe that the purer a woman is, the more painful they are, which indicates how much you love your partner and how noble a spirit of sacrifice you have given yourself to him. Because women cannot maintain 100% popularity on the first night, they can only rely on the pain on the first night as evidence. In this way, the concept that pain must be the feeling of vagina in the first sexual life has been unconsciously strengthened, which has almost become a collective unconscious, leaving men and women no doubt. Therefore, men will cherish women's dedication, and women will demand their loyalty.

However, I have to say that this concept has its own rationality, as it is a classic product of male power and socio-cultural hegemony. Most women are afraid of the so-called pain of inserting their penis into the vagina, and even fear that they will not be able to have normal sexual activity for many years after marriage. This has led to public opinion, divorce tragedies, and guilt towards husbands, causing them long-term psychological stress, leading to a series of psychological or physiological problems such as anxiety, depression, gynecological inflammation, autoimmune diseases, skin diseases, and so on.