Because work is very busy! (I don't have time to meet you)
No matter how busy you are, even during the hot period of love, you will find time to meet. This is just the line used when everyone's enthusiasm turns cold. Of course, there is also a possibility of being really busy, but it may also be a bit of a state of boredom. Actually, it can be judged by the tone of his voice when he doesn't want to meet, whether the other person is really busy or making excuses.
Let's take you back! (I want to spend more time with you)
Sending the woman home is a male's mission, which allows for more opportunities for development. Of course, if the other party is not interested and does not need to deliver it to their home, they can deliver it to the nearest station, but it also depends on the distance difference. If the other party lives far away and even sends you back, it can test how deep their love is.
Do you think I'm lying? (Concealing major events)
When you lose your temper and speak loudly to preemptively, you are actually afraid that the fact will be discovered. Men who say such things are definitely lying, so they often preemptively make themselves angry, making it difficult to suspect that they are lying.
I am a very poor man! (If you want to be with me, you must agree with my approach)
This is a warning from a man to a woman who admires him: "I am a dangerous man." Be mentally prepared for the other person first, so that you can have a way out in the future when there is something bad. At that time, you can confidently say that I have already declared that I am not a good person, which can make the other person feel helpless.
Are you alone? Do you drink together
This is a technique commonly used by cautious men to invite women to drink together. This is also to confirm whether the person is waiting or really drinking alone. If we didn't ask anything, we would have a drink together. On the way, the other party's boyfriend arrived and felt bad. In order not to fail, we made this temptation, and then used food as a means of inquiry and moved to another place.
I'm not hating you! (But it's not like you, give up!)
This is a gentle lie used when confessing to oneself but not wanting to develop with the other person, such as "I just want to work now" or "I still don't want to date anyone". This is a common phrase to refuse the other person without hurting them. It's good to say that the other party gives up or gives up, but on the contrary, some women may still hold the idea that "he doesn't dislike himself, there may still be opportunities" and so on. It's not surprising.
You are a woman who can live a strong life alone! (Break up!)
This is used when someone likes other women and wants to break up with their girlfriend quickly, and it is also a manifestation of wanting to avoid responsibility. It is ruthless to decide unilaterally that the other party can live independently and vertically. Words such as' you are an adult, you are brave and strong 'also need to stimulate the other party's self-esteem, so that they can calmly break up with themselves and make their good lives better. This is a common technique used by young men.
Like a sister! I think you are very cute
If he has such a positive comment about you at the beginning of our acquaintance, it indicates that he is interested in you and that he will love you like his own sister, hoping that you will accept him and gradually develop the relationship between both parties.
It looks very lonely! Do you drink together
It was said to a woman drinking alone in a bar. The sentence that makes others feel lonely from the beginning is also commonly used by arrogant and confident men. Before saying it, they first look into the other person's eyes, smile slightly, and then say that, but want to invite the other person to become their drinking partner.
What? What's the matter (I have no interest in you at all)
When you call him, he immediately says this sentence, indicating that he is not excited by your call. Most women would say 'nothing special, but...' at this point, and he would ask, 'Is it okay to call again?'? This is a deliberate cold talk, trying to make the other person understand what they mean. If you call a woman who has some favoritism, they will politely greet each other.
Go buy a cigarette and come back soon! (To call another woman)
This is when you want to call another woman in front of your girlfriend, but cannot do so, you will use it as an excuse to go out. For non-smoking men, they often use excuses such as going out to buy things. Clever ladies can buy everything they want and see how the other person responds. We've been together before!
(It still matters now, but...)
Sentences used by experienced men who encounter their girlfriends with a third party. The other party is a former girlfriend, just drinking tea with him, and there is no even an unnatural relationship, so that the girlfriend can understand that they love her and don't think recklessly.
It's nothing to do with you! Please don't interfere with me
Who did you meet last night? Why didn't you call me? When you ask such a question and the other person coldly responds with this line, it means that the relationship between the two has cooled down. In fact, when men say this, they feel that there is no need to explain, but on the other hand, it also means that the man still likes you a bit, but it will gradually reduce the degree of love.
Scare! The phone didn't ring! (Not wanting to be caught along with other women)
Unable to receive, therefore unable to contact, completely blaming the inability to receive on the mobile phone as a reason. Most men who say such lines do not want to be with each other or are currently with other women. In order not to be seen by the other party on the phone and cause trouble, these men will wash out the message number.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)