Post Date April, 15 2023
How many people have you misunderstood in this life
In life, many people like to stand from their own perspective, thinking that they understand others well, condemning and criticizing others arrogantly, and thinking that the whole world is right. In fact, you don't know someone else's life, and you can't empathize with their ups and downs, so don't easily criticize or criticize them.
What kind of life others have and what kind of path they take, others will never truly understand. So, no one has the right to criticize or comment on others, because without real experience, one cannot experience everything in it.
Perhaps you are smarter than others, and their lives may not seem like much to you, but you should not view or criticize them from your own perspective. Don't be too absolute in everything, and don't be too subjective when looking at problems. In fact, sometimes we should know how to look at problems from a different perspective.
There is a fable, It is said that "a pig, a sheep, and a dairy cow are kept in the same pen. Once, the owner caught a pig, and the pig shouted loudly and fiercely resisted. The sheep and dairy cow disliked its call and angrily accused them, saying," You are too exaggerated. He often comes to catch us, but we don't shout loudly. "The pig replied after hearing this: Catching you and catching me are completely different things. He only wants your hair and milk when he catches you, but he takes my life when he catches me! "The sheep and the cow listened and remained silent.
This story illustrates that people with different positions and environments find it difficult to understand their feelings. If we are good at standing in the position of others to see things, we can understand others from the depths of our hearts, be closer to and more in line with the facts, and easily cultivate more compassion among people, making them easier to accept. This way, there will be much less misunderstandings and conflicts between people.
All the consequences of this world are not unfounded, and anyone doing anything has their own reasons and reasons. Everyone's life has unknown joys, sorrows, and joys. The reason why some people always like to blame others without asking questions is often because they do not understand the reasons behind it. Before you accuse others, be sure to have a comprehensive understanding of the situation. If one is eager to criticize and criticize without distinction, it is easy to cause harm to others.
From a different perspective, you will find that you are not the only protagonist in this world. There are thousands of people and varieties, and each person has their own story. Each person is the protagonist in their own story, whether the story is plain or bumpy. Everyone has experienced different stories, whether sad or happy. Life is impermanent, and everyone will have tears and sadness. We must learn to appreciate and sympathize, and learn to be kind to others.
There is a true story that a doctor rushed to the hospital as quickly as possible after receiving a call for emergency surgery and changed into surgical clothes, The father of the boy (patient) lost control and shouted to him, "Why did you come so late? Don't you know that my son is in danger? Why don't you have any sense of responsibility?" The doctor smiled calmly and said, "I'm sorry, I was not at the hospital just now, but I rushed to the hospital when I received the call. Please calm down Calm down? If your son was lying in the operating room, could you calm down? What would happen if your son died now? "The boy's father said angrily.
The doctor smiled calmly and said, "I will silently recite the prayer, 'We come from the dust, and all belong to the dust. Blessings are the name of the Lord.' Please pray for your son!" The boy's father angrily said, "This is what a person says when they are indifferent to the life and death of others." A few hours later, the surgery was successfully completed, and the doctor happily walked out of the operating room, Say to the boy's father, "Thank goodness, your son has been saved!" Before the boy's father could answer, he hurriedly left and said, "If you have any questions, you can ask the nurse!" "Why is he so arrogant? Can't he even wait for a few minutes when I ask about his son's situation?" The boy's father said angrily to the nurse.
The nurse burst into tears: "His son died in a traffic accident yesterday. When we asked him to perform an operation for your son, he was on his way to the funeral home. Now, he has saved your son's life and is going to finish his son's funeral."
You don't know someone else's life, please don't criticize them casually.
What has happened to others' lives, what twists and tribulations they are experiencing, you may not know from your own perspective, what you see is just the surface.
Don't easily blame others, because we don't have enough wisdom to know the joys and sorrows of others' lives and truly understand their ups and downs. Due to different stances and environments, it is difficult for each person to understand their feelings. So, don't blindly criticize and criticize, otherwise it will cause harm to others.
A truly cultured person who can use compassion and tolerance to achieve others is actually achieving oneself. A person who can learn how to extricate oneself from "phenomena" is truly someone who understands self-cultivation. Think about the hardships we have experienced in our mental journey, only then can we know the hardships of others. Think about us, how many unknowns of sadness and suffering we have, we know that there is actually the same content in the lives of others, and we also experience ups and downs on the road of life. Think about how we have walked through the ups and downs, and you will know how others have walked through them. A true person who understands self-cultivation should understand the use and harm of language, and understand not to view problems unilaterally from their own perspective. This way, the harm between people will be greatly reduced.
One flower, one world, one leaf, one bodhi. In fact, it is not difficult to achieve this. By being kind to others and understanding others, one can gain inner peace in this secular world. There is a saying that goes, "Happiness does not depend on wealth, power, or appearance, but on how you get along with the people around you." If you want to be a happy and happy person, start by treating others well!
