Post Date September, 06 2023
Researchers randomly surveyed thousands of people in the United States and Australia and found that the optimal time for substantive sexual activity is 7-13 minutes (starting from sexual organ contact). Most respondents, especially males, indicated that after more than 13 minutes of substantive sexual activity, fatigue will increase and physical strength will be difficult to recover; In less than 7 minutes, there will be a feeling of unfinished business.
It is said that this study aims to make many people understand that the statement 'perfect sex takes longer and longer' is nonsense. Research leader Eric Kotter explained that people always have unrealistic "assumptions" about sex.
For example, if a man wants to have a robust penis, he must have a strong erection and stay up all night. This is clearly a wishful thinking, but many people take it for granted and even use it as a measure of sexual ability. As a result, those who have no problems begin to worry about their sexual performance, which may lead to a series of sexual dysfunction over time.
The man deliberately procrastinates, with the original intention of hoping that the woman can obtain longer pleasure and ensure that she can reach a wonderful pinnacle. Actually, men should understand that there are many ways to satisfy women. Adding, changing, and enriching foreplay content will essentially enhance her appetite before sex, which is more effective than monotonous mechanical movements.
In addition, men should learn more about their partner's sensitive areas and provide gentle and appropriate stimulation, which can better stimulate women's desires and allow them to exert greater initiative in sexual aspects. Women themselves should also communicate more about sexual issues with their partners, so that they understand that time is not a crucial factor in determining their quality of life.
Sexual activity is a matter for two people. Only when both parties truly pay attention and listen to each other's needs can there be qualitative change. Don't deliberately ask only about the length of time.
