Post Date May, 09 2023
I often hear people complain that after being together for a long time, they understand everything and become accustomed to everything. Without a sense of mystery, passion also disappears. This is a situation that every couple will encounter. In fact, in the process of getting along with two people, perfect sex and love can be constantly created, which requires you to learn to cleverly use mystery to trigger passion.
Humans may develop a mysterious mentality towards unknown natural or social forces that may generate both significant positive and negative values, while watching their consequences with concern, nervousness, and anxiety. To describe it in a few words, it is: concealable, impenetrable, hidden but not exposed, erratic, and elusive. This state, also known as mystery, often evokes the other party's curiosity and desire to explore. The reason why 'mystery' is attractive is because it leaves space for imagination and creation for the other party.
Throughout the entire love process and even in the married couple's life, mystery plays a special promoting and crucial psychological role. The mystery between men and women can ignite curiosity between them, and driven by this curiosity, both sexes crave contact and explore each other. This principle applies not only to deep understanding and recognition at the emotional level, but also to the ultimate expression of intimate emotions between the sexes - sex.
The core of mystery is unpredictability, which means not playing cards according to common sense. For example, you can change your habit of having sex with lights on and try to feel the other person's breathing and moaning in the mysterious darkness, filling your mind with rich associations; The same goes for blindfolded sex; You can also tell the other party that there will be a mysterious gift for you later, but no matter how the other party asks, don't tell them until the answer is revealed at night; Try a sexy hollowed out nightgown you've never worn before, or a new fun toy Welcoming waves of excitement in anticipation and uncertainty helps to awaken emotions and bring joy.
To maintain passion, it is more important for two people to constantly reset their mindset to zero. By adding uncertain sexual games to a stable relationship and moderately changing physical and emotional distances, we can fully stimulate each other's curiosity and desires. Achieve wanting to catch, but unable to catch; Be reserved, but not ostentatious; Conservative, but not self defeating; Cold and stern, but not haughty. By using the medicine 'mystery' well, you can definitely share perfect sex for a long time in your long-term relationship.
