How do middle-aged couples enjoy sex? What are the taboos in marital sexual relationships

How do middle-aged couples enjoy sex? In middle age, when events between couples are no longer attractive or pursuing sexual quality, how can middle-aged couples enjoy sex?

1、 How middle-aged couples enjoy sex

1. Synchronize marital speed

As men age, their pace begins to slow down, which may make many men feel uncomfortable, but in fact, this is a good thing. Because this is beneficial for the synchronization speed of couples. A survey shows that newly married women in their twenties are the most difficult to achieve orgasm in all age groups. As men age, the rhythm of excitement begins to slow down, and blood flow and muscle contraction naturally slow down. Therefore, men aged 40 or 50 need more time to reach orgasm. This slow and emotional sex is more attractive to his wife. "Sexually active" wives will naturally be satisfied with synchronization. Unlike when she was young, the wife had not yet started to get excited, and the husband had already stopped. Therefore, with age, the quality of sexual life improves.

2. Take action and feel more

When men are young, they enjoy visual enjoyment, such as appreciating their wife's bra and body, which can make them feel happy. After middle age, he may disagree with his wife's body and pay more attention to her kissing and love. When he sees his wife undressing, the young husband will be very excited. By the time he is in his 40s, this proportion will drop to 40%. If couples can replace their eyes with their own actions and passive acceptance with active expression, they will achieve unexpected results. So middle-aged couples need to take action to make sexual life feel more practical.

3. Weight over quantity

When they were young, they had more sexual activity. A survey found that 50% of young couples had sex two or three times a week, of which 11% had sex more than four times. After the age of 35, this proportion has decreased to 39%. 45% of couples may experience emotional and physical satisfaction "several times a month". After a decrease in sexual activity, couples should be aware of the importance of the quality of each sexual activity. If they can obtain both physical and mental satisfaction at the same time, even if only once, it will be much better than usual. The saying 'Farewell is better than newlywed' also indicates how important a high-quality sexual life is for a couple's relationship.

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