1. Let's talk about love first:
When I read some stories about houses and money, I always wonder why people can place their love on material things. Real love is not material. For example, our first love at school, 50 cents of Stinky tofu, 2.5 yuan of Fried Rice with eggs, because we have love in our hearts, we will feel fragrant, not because we have Stinky tofu and Fried Rice, the love in our hearts will increase. Girls now demand too much of men, Although a man needs to support his family, he is the backbone of the family. He can support you without asking you to beg. With him, you can live more like you, more freely, cuter, and more comfortable. This is happiness. In fact, a large part of it is psychological factors, which have little to do with how big a house you live in or what kind of car you drive.
2. Talking about the relationship with men:
How to keep fresh? I am young and inexperienced now, but my boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 8 years and cohabiting for 3 years (not wanting to get married, planning to get married at the age of 29). I used to be afraid of how to keep a man's gaze on you, how to make a man love you like he did when he was in love. Now I understand, I don't know if the big brothers and sisters here will agree. In fact, let him go, and you can find more meaningful things yourself, If you can enrich your life, you will find that no matter how busy, how late you come back, or how much you love someone, you don't need to rush every day to know where they have gone or who they are with, because you have unfinished business. When they come back at 8 o'clock, you are still working out, when they come back at 10 o'clock, you are still taking a bath, and you have the leisure to worry about so much. You need to make your life happy, free, and like a fairy, When a man comes back and feels the warmth of home, where will he easily go to other women's places? This is your feminine charm that attracts him, not anything else.
3. Self improvement is important:
Nowadays, more and more women are able to share the cost of their home with men, which is great. However, I believe that doing their own work well is still 60% better, keeping the home clean is 70%, and 80-90% better is to pay attention to a man's work and interests. If there is an opportunity, it is like a man asking about his profession, his knowledge of things, he will communicate with you, have a long conversation with you, you can enter his heart, and you can be friends with him, He likes to share his happiness with you, and I think this is something that little girls should focus on learning. It's hard to take care of you all one's life. Don't always think that you like watching soap operas, and men should always accommodate you. You can try his 50% chance of watching football, your 50% chance of watching football, and your 50% chance of watching soap operas. You will find that you have a much higher chance of occupying TV than him, so, Let him do it right, go shopping on his own, maybe you can persuade him to pay for you, because he is so happy that you let him, hehe; This is about humility and concern;
4. Sex:
Every couple has different contradictions. Men like to be fast, while women come slowly. Has the person you love heard you say you like to be slow? No matter how difficult the problem is, communication is the most important; For example, if you are not satisfied, you can consider masturbation. There is nothing bad about it. Self help is a natural help. If your man has been under a lot of work pressure recently, not for 15 days, or even longer, and for the sake of family harmony, I suggest masturbation. This is much better than infidelity. Don't be embarrassed, choose your favorite porn or other equipment. When he is busy, you should feel comfortable on your own, you should know, Women's mistakes in sexual dissatisfaction are far greater than those of masturbation. Hehe, and their mood is so bad that everyone feels like they owe you money. You can completely change this situation on your own. Of course, it's best to keep it confidential. Sometimes, it's appropriate to mention it to a man. At that time, it's important to be cautious, otherwise he may feel that there is a problem with his body, which is a matter of dignity. Then you have to solve even more difficult problems.
5. Self reflection is important:
Everyone has flaws. Nowadays, men and women tend to focus on others when things go wrong. In fact, when it comes to marriage, experience, and principles are all explored by oneself, just like learning and work. Don't you want to work hard to get a high salary? Impossible, do you want to be happy without continuously summarizing lessons? Then you will die mixed up. As we all know, love and marriage are two different things. Study hard, which is also my purpose when I come to besiege the city. I want to be prepared for danger, take precautions, maintain beauty and competitiveness. I think if you do, men nowadays don't like you, you can still have your own choices instead of being mixed up too much.
6. Make periodic demands to men:
Men like to provide women with services and assistance within their capabilities. For example, when they have 20W, you can tell them to ask for a diamond ring, and I think they will be happy to agree. Don't ask too much, but it's not practical. If they can't afford a house, you can ask to rent a better one, and then you can live comfortably. I think the reason why men are happy in their hearts is because their loved ones are happy, Instead of being seen as a money making machine.