Do you know how to overcome the sexual fear of newlyweds? The happiness of newlyweds mainly comes from sexual life, and there are many reasons why young people yearn for newlyweds. Next, Xiaobian will introduce to you how to overcome the sexual fear of newlyweds.
But there is a gender difference in this issue, and unmarried women usually do not crave to try as men do, but rather develop fear.
In theory, women's fear cannot be eliminated because it is hidden in their subconscious. It can be said that this fear has accumulated the history of all human sexual behavior over the years. Moreover, eliminating it is not good either. This fear has a positive effect on the self-protection awareness of unmarried girls. However, when a girl is about to become a bride, this fear is still strong, which is not a good thing. It can cause Vaginismus, and can also cause female frigidity or lack of Orgasm.
Marrying with fear will inevitably disrupt or hinder sexual life after marriage. Not only does the groom refuse to appear, but the bride also refuses to see it.
From a medical perspective, the way to prevent such consequences is for women who are about to become brides to have a truly thorough understanding of the sexual intercourse process. Brides should understand that women have no reason to be afraid of sexual intercourse, and dedicating themselves to the person they love is a form of happiness, not being violated. Physiologically speaking, a woman's vagina has good stretchability, as long as you are not afraid, you can get happiness instead of pain. The thing is too strange. The more scared you are, the more pain you feel, the more scared you become, and you will fall into a vicious cycle.
How can we have good sex on our wedding night?
Firstly, before marriage, both parties should learn some basic sexual knowledge, understand the structure and physiological characteristics of male and female organs, to avoid joking about the female urethra as the vagina on wedding night.
In addition, the groom should appropriately restrain his desire for success and avoid rudeness and recklessness. Before touching the sexual organs, she should be gentle and considerate, stroking the bride as much as possible to ease the tension and doubt of the bride, so as to arouse her Libido. After the bride's mood and Libido reach a certain level, sexual intercourse is carried out after the vulva is moist. During sexual intercourse, the groom should control his impulses, and his movements should be slow and soft. If not at once, you can try several times.